its been 3 weeks since the breakup between me and my gf. she was my first love and so was i her first love. we had been through 26 mths worth of relationship and gone through 2 breakups (of which all she initiated) and through my efforts i got her back. now the 3rd break up has arised ( she initiated again) and its been 3 weeks ever since. i miss her alot i really want her back, i can't sleep well and eat well ever since. i dun even noe if she is thinking of me now. However what i can confirm is that there is no third party involved. her reason for breakup is because she wants to be free of commitments in a relationship and that she is not ready to get back into a relationship. on top of that she said that when she kisses me she no longer feels a spark ( i dunno what she means by that). i feel like calling her and asking her to get back with me. what should i do? i miss her crazy. i miss the old times. i miss 4 weeks ago. pls advice. thanks for reading. god bless
2006-07-20 00:01:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NOOOOOOO!!!!
This really does not sound like a healthy relationship, but if you want her back...ignore her, and make her think you have moved on and that you have someone else.
She will call you if she thinks that you have gave up on her, promise!
2006-07-20 00:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has broken up with you yet again, don't try to get back with her. She will probably do the same thing in the future and hurt you again. Have some self respect, don't call her. I know it must be very hard for you since you love her so much, but sometimes you have to make tough decisions in life.
You deserve a better woman than her, who loves you as much as you love her. Don't go back to this woman. Everything will be okay with time.
2006-07-20 07:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by haze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can speak from experience when i say this but just leave her be. She wants time alone so give her that time alone! I know it will be hard because of the past you have together, but let her have her free time! If she truly loves you she will come back to you! And if you do feel the urge to call her DON'T call just to see if she will go back out with you, call her to see how's she's doing call her just to chat.. Hope this helps
2006-07-20 07:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by something sweet & sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not call this girl! You need to move on. She is playing games with your heart. Find someone deserving of your attention. She's out there!
2006-07-20 07:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a highway for joy and a highway for sorrow
A road for today and a road for tomorrow
So choose your path wisely and walk with care
If you follow your heart, you'll find your way there
2006-07-20 07:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know the line: "we'll always have Paris"? well you should! i have to move on, i know it's difficult but you have to.it's plain to see she doesn't want you any more... it's her loss!you need to focus on YOU right now, go out with your friends or find new ones! you can do this!
2006-07-20 07:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by olga z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call her!...She clearly said it, she wants to be free, and dont want to be in a relationshhip...So, stop living in the past!....u say she's ur first love, and vice versa....well, in that case, she will never forget you, and who knows, in the future, u mlight end up together again...never say never!!
2006-07-20 07:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by SpaceCowboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you miss her.
2006-07-20 07:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋