recently i had a falling out with my fiancee. we have a kid together. basically, she was acting like an individual. neglecting our relationship and acting on her own. so i decided to send her back home. we met up again and she said that she was willling to try again and start new life with me. i agreed and she had to go back and pack her stuff. but the first weekend it started again. so i stopped supporting her. she got a job and now realises how difficult life is. it has been 3 weeks now and we talked yesterday. now she is asking for some monetary reassurance as she has nothing. i told her that inorder to get this from me she has to show me that she wants to come back due to love and not for other reasons. her answer was for me to make first move. send her money and she will show me!!
i dont think she has learnt enough, still stubborn and isnt ready to accepts her faults, when i mention things she did, she becomes protective.
what should i do?
2006-07-19 23:19:48 · 9 answers · asked by ali k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get relationship counselling! Now!
2006-07-19 23:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offence but it sounds like to me you want a pet not a lover, what do you mean you decided to send her back home what is she a child, i dont doubt she has some issues's but i think you do as well my friend, try treating her as a equal not a pet or a child that might be a good start to making her grow up. i think professional advice would be helpful for both of you.
2006-07-20 06:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by pebblesandkara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey people why u want others to accept their lookouts
be a gentleman forget alll the stupid issues and their r many other things to be thought on
make her realise tat u r the best if u want urself to be ruling in her heart
2006-07-20 06:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by miths 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for your child, but get rid of the woman. Sounds like she wants you to take care of her. Tell her if she has nothing, then work towards her goals. It's not your responsibility to do it for her.
2006-07-20 06:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT send her money. stick to your guns and you will realize that she will not come around for the reasons you need.
2006-07-20 06:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by spyderman1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why take her back she did it before she will do it again you 2 are not rightly fit or it wouldn't be happening
2006-07-20 08:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are trying to control her. she is not your puppet that you can dangle over a fire. your child needs support. if you think she is stubborn, divorce her.
2006-07-20 06:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lie this is the best advice
2006-07-20 06:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by jameel_asia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her for good.
2006-07-20 11:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋