my name is Deanna and i have been married for now only 6 months and i really want it to last a long time and not end in the early stages.
2006-07-19 23:18:06 · 14 answers · asked by babee_dk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been married five years and my wife and I have been together ten years. We communicate and have fun with each other don't take things too seriously that won't matter three days later. Don't nag each other. Most importantly if either one of you has a problem with something the other said resolve the issue immediately no matter how insignificant. That is how a disagreement a month down the road becomes an all out argument. Good luck
2006-07-19 23:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Diesel77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the odds are against it, but I believe it can work if you both try. If either one of you does not put in the effort, it will not work. I am still deeply in love with my exwife but she got bored and wanted a change. No matter how much I loved her and how good I treated her, she didn't respond.
What each of you have to do, is make sure the other one knows that they are the most important person in your life. You need to make sure you do the things that make him or her happy and show them you are attentive to his needs and wants. For me just a hug, kiss and I love you and missed you when I came home from work made a world of difference. When my exwife would call me at work just to say she loved me and couldn't wait until I came home. These things made me feel so good about myself and that I was cared about. In turn this made me love her even more and want to take care of her and provide her whatever she wanted. Also, there has to be a good physical relationship, not sex but making love. To give your body, heart and soul to another person is a great gift. When I touched my wife, I have never felt a feeling greater than that. It was like the world would stop. I just wish she would come back with the feelings she had for me when we first married.
2006-07-20 01:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by scheib65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deanna, just live each day and do the best you can do, don't worry about making your marriage last after only 6 months, be in love and be their for each other, communicate with him all the time and don't keep any secrets from each other, never go to bed fighting and always say good bye in the mornings with a big kiss and cuddle, don't take life to serious and try to enjoy the little things together, that's what i did with my first husband although he died young our time together was beautiful and in my heart will last a life time, i hope i have helped you in some way.
2006-07-19 23:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by pebblesandkara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of u have to want it , if you want it then , thats the first step u cant put a ring on your finger and wait until it becomes a fiasco
you have to work at the marraige , hold on to what u can grab .
work things out and do not let a disagreement stand for a long period of time.
the both of u willingly and knowingly married on another , so u both knew the trials u would face , though we all have our different problems in live .
decide as 1 , sepperate your thoughts on problems or financial situations is bond to slowly mess things up
2006-07-19 23:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by wastedarse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is really a sacriface, and only you and your husband will know if it will last or not. I just got separated from my husband of 18 years, and I did mean until death do us part, but my husband deceived me from the very beginning and I wasn't able to get over it. So, only you can determine the real answer to that question, Deanna.
2006-07-19 23:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by peak033 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 00:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fiva languages to talk:
1. love words and complements
2.Gifts
3.Quality time(the time you share with ur husbend and u r concentrating on nothing but ur husbend)
4.help him and dont wait for him to ask
5.Making love and soft kisses and touches
Now you need to find out what is the language that your husbend talks i mean the thing that makes your husbend feels really that u care and love him .
I hope that helps
best wishs
2006-07-19 23:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do people come on here and ask stupid questions that NO ONE has an answer to??? That's like someone asking will I ever have a traffic accident and what color will the other person's car be?? Deanna if your that DUMB, he'll be leaving you soon girl?? If your not a blonde, color your hair soon-it's a perfect match!!!!
2006-07-20 01:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not gonna happen. Just wait it out at least 7 years so you can get the maximum alimony payments.
2006-07-19 23:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and fair 2 ur husband u will last long
2006-07-19 23:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋