my mate hates gays(dont no why)yet she whent round snogging girls at a party
2006-07-19 23:07:41 · 16 answers · asked by xx knickers xx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think that it is kind of possible. I mean you must of heard of people who REALLY go on about how much they hate gays and then later they come out and admit that they were actually gay all along but didnt want people to think that just in case they weren't. Whilst they are unsure they might not want other people guessing until they know themselves. Some people are scared yet curious about gays...its quite strange really. Some people act so bizarrely...
2006-07-20 00:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 8⤊ 4⤋
sure that's available. some human beings do no longer in straightforward terms like the certainty they have been born gay and resent it. Others are homophobic via fact they sense being gay is a foul factor and unnatural. Others are homophobic to hide their very very own sexuallity. As for the different woman, I's assume she hates female men ordinarily rather than basically gay female men. it is a sprint complicated to appreciate and clarify yet in precis that's available.
2016-10-08 03:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite common for closet gays to be homophobic... it's their way of repressing the feelings that scare them.
Then again, I've snogged a lot of girls but I'm not gay, I just liked experimenting and exploring my boundaries... And I liked the attention I got from guys as a result...
2006-07-19 23:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Littlegreydevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can be gay and homophobic. She cant except her sexuality yet. It's called self hatred. Probably from her upbringing. She should change, most dykes usually do.
2006-07-19 23:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by david r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibility that she hasn't come out yet and is still trying to conform with what she percieves as societys acceptable beliefs... Leave her to work this one out for herself. Its a big issue and very personal
2006-07-19 23:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, she's still in the closet, so is putting out a pretense to disguise herself. She will eventually crack.
2006-07-19 23:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by hellbent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually know someone who is gay and hates themselves for it, even though they cant do anything to change it. Its weird i know....
2006-07-19 23:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what someone does in they're normal lives and what they do when they're inhabitions aren't quite as prevalent (like at a party) are very different things
2006-07-19 23:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Shane S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think that its possible, most likely if youre gay youre most likely comfortable with it, i mean i partly know because yeah i am bisexual
2006-07-19 23:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by kendra dowson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just needs to stop trying so hard to fear what she knows she is... Perhaps she wants to be the one to take charge... ;)
2006-07-20 00:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋