things in a positive light rather than negative? cos i regret especially that ive analysed issues with friends when really i've created it!
2006-07-19 22:45:13 · 6 answers · asked by smart_babe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
JUST FREE YOURSELF FROM ALL BOUNDERIES & DONT SET GOAL FOR ALL SMSLL THINGS. bBE OPEN MINDED
2006-07-19 23:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by atul 1 · 9⤊ 1⤋
If you analyze things too much, you are probably insecure.
Not that being insecure is horrible - it's normal...but that is why you're always asking yourself "why did he do this? Is it because he doesn't like me? Does she think I'm ugly? Why did they stop talking to me? Did I say something wrong?" etc etc
Is that close to being correct?
If that's the case, you need to work on your self esteem. That will give you confidence, which will not only cause people to like you, but will make you not care what others think.
To get confidence, do the normal things - work out hard, diet, join clubs and activities to be interesting, get contacts if you wear glasses, get a nice haircut, etc etc.
2006-07-20 03:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You are fearfully and wonderfully made", this is from a psalm. This was inspired by God. God gives us a choice in everything we do right or wrong, and has the ability to forgive if we seek forgiveness. The start of solving a problem is to see it. So remember "You are fearfully and wonderfully made" regardless of the choices you have made.
If you can say your sorry, and it is accepted unconditionally they are a good friend.
Think carefully about the words you speak and the actions you take towards words spoken towards you.
2006-07-19 22:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admitting the problem exists is the first step. Acknowledge this to your friends, and if they are true friends, they may be able to help you. Learn to have fun for fun's sake. Do not Analyze it, just do it.
2006-07-19 22:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might sound stupid but give it a go.......
.... think slowly
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I was given this advice and it works ----- ppl will laff but ya don't need to tell em
2006-07-19 22:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by rose_pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self esteem work and studies can change all that and return you to some fun and humor about things.
2006-07-19 23:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋