My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 yrs off and on. I caught him cheating on me about 2 yrs ago and he recently caught me. We want to work things out because we are still verymuch in love. I was being vendictive on him and we both have changed our lifestyles. Can we make things work? Or is it hopeless should I move on. I LOVE HIM.
2006-07-19 22:24:54 · 7 answers · asked by sweetiesallie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my personal theory is that if you love each other enough, you can work out pretty muchanything, and if you love each other at all, you owe it to yourselves to at least try.
2006-07-19 22:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go get some books about relationships and get to work on what may be the best one you'll ever have. IMO, fixing a relationship is simple once both of you want to and get some information about it. it's also great fun to learn and practice the various little techniques that build a good, loving relationship. have fun and good luck
2006-07-20 05:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm around your age - leave him. :)
j/k
work it out. Cheating does suck, but you both need to promise not to go down that dumb road again! If you both love each other so much, then you will find a way to forgive and move past it.
good luck
2006-07-20 05:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Future Stenter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both agree on making it work, go for it!!! But you should agree that if it happens again, what is there to hold on to? If you love each other that much, stop chaeting and repect each other!
2006-07-20 05:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by kiets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ur call girl. But if u really put ur mind to it, i think u both can.
2006-07-20 07:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by ciyire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-20 05:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think, once you are a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-07-20 05:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋