my partner is babysittin on sat night catch is he is at his ex wifes house. he says he might stay over if she doesnt come home should i trust him
2006-07-19 22:16:06 · 9 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How long you been with him, Have you met the ex wife? Why dont you go with him!!
2006-07-19 22:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh hun, do I feel you there. I am currently dating a still married man. They have been seperated for over 2 and a half years. I had a very tough time dealing with him going over to babysit his boys. A few things I had to realize, is there is a reason they aren't together anymore, and there is a reason he is with me. At first, I didn't trust him, then after I met the wife, it was her I didn't trust..lol. I look at it this way hun, do you have any reason to not trust him? Sit down and talk to him though, tell him how you are feeling. That is the only way he is going to know. Tell him, that if something does happen, that you do want to know about it. Just, be honest with him, and tell him, that you want him to be honest with you.
2006-07-20 05:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by christinajean18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have yopu got any reason not to trust him. At the end of the day he obviously loves his children and doesnt want just anyone to look after them, and i say thats a good thing. And as for the staying over thing if shes not home then whats the problem. Talk to him and air your views if not you could make a fool of yourself.
If you are having trust issues then its really not going to work and you should leave him but explain why dont just dump him.
2006-07-20 05:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by mrpickle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes an ex for a reason hun!!!
IF the children are his - of course hes going to be the obvious person to babysit - and spend time with them.
If they're not his kids - maybe be slightly suspicious as to why thes babysitting?
If you still have doubts - why not offer to babysit with him? That way he still does his ex the favour and you have nothing to worry about! Alternatively - offer to take the kids for the night at your house - make out like you're giving her the opportunity for some free time herself, whereas really you're putting your mind at rest!
2006-07-20 05:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a guy's opinion...but I wouldn't worry, and here's why:
"90% of the stuff you worry about never happens and the other 10% happens whether you worry about it or not!".
If he is at his ex-wife's or fooling around on you, he may be hurting you temporarily, however, he is hurting himself worse. The truth has a tendency to come out and you'll see you would be better off without him. However, if he isn't then everything is fine.
2006-07-20 08:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he has given you reason not to trust him i cant see what the problem is......for any relationship to work you have to have trust...as hard as it may be except that it is innocent,dont let your own insecurities get in the way......i hope things go ok for you.
2006-07-20 05:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by julie w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should trust him. unless the kids he's babysitting are not his ...which I doubt is the case
2006-07-20 05:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by haze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me then i would not trust him.
2006-07-20 05:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by spiderman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me, i would not trust him,tell him to come home or your finished.............
2006-07-20 05:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by theblackwitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋