2006-07-19 21:56:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and i want to know what you will you do if you were in my place what if he don't ever want to merry me after i wait all this years should i wait for him or not
2006-07-19 22:06:01 · update #1
i am in same situation. i have GF and have kid together. been together +7 years now. the reason why i don't want to marry is because i am scared that things will become worse. why ruin things. and in any case in the eyes of everyone she is my wife!!
so why have the paper. also, maybe cause i dont trust her intentions. scared of divorce as marriages dont last anymore.
2006-07-19 22:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by ali k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.
Love, like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with a soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must nourish from below, tending to its roots, keeping itself alive.
Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken, another heightens. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.
2006-07-20 05:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a valid reason for not marrying you soon... if your answer is yes you can wait for him... without any reason means he doest love you deeply... if he loves you deeply he would try to marry you as soon as possible... ask him whether he will marry you soon... if not get married to another one without any delay... bcoz 5 years is long period ... enjoy your life with a nice husbant...
2006-07-20 05:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years is a big time now you should ask him face to face you want to marry me or not . if he again do blah blah then dont ruin your future with some one dosent get you to a way of life .
2006-07-20 05:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sidd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you guys are about the same age and pretty young...
Which concludes that...
Guys don't just marry...
They have dreams, futures to think about. Goals to accomplish.
I mean.. if you guys are old enough and the guy is already successful..
I don't think he wants to marry you.
2006-07-20 05:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Air 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is he does not love you deep enough to want to marry you. Well, unless you want an expensive wedding and he can't afford it, then I have no say.
2006-07-20 05:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to say, but i would leave him, because marriage is so important to me, but everyone is different, ask yourself, is marriage important, if not and he is a good guy and treat you well, just stay in a committed relationship.
2006-07-20 05:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him again. if he also don't want to marry,ask him to give reason!but i think he must have some reason why don't marry
2006-07-20 05:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by jocelin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋