it's hard to teach your heart to love a person even if inside of you you love someone else..now what will you do if you and that person you have learn to love were committed and he has decided to leave you?knowing you have learn to love that person that much compared to the person you used to love?
2006-07-19 21:51:44 · 5 answers · asked by jO-An 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's hard, i know, but you will get over thing's later on, please dont let it get you down, at 1 stage in our life, we have all loved someone, but never knew that we would evea get over that person, but we do ,stay happy, you will be fine, they r the one's that r missing out
2006-07-19 21:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by louise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you get a better education about loving and learn to love someone else better, wiser and truer. there is always more to learn about loving and commiting to a great relationship. you can take what you learned and upgrade it with the next person. it also helps for your partner to be learning things too.
2006-07-19 22:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi there!!whew!!! it's really so hard..but why don't you talk things over, try to make things work again..did he tell you the reason why he gonna leave you? if yes, and if you really love him..then assure him that you would make up whatever flaws you had...but then if he really fixed his mind to leave you...why keep holding on? anyway, it's his big lose to let go of the woman who really loved him...right?
Moved on...it's just a matter of acceptance...maybe you're not really meant to be..who knows there's someone better for you prepared by god...perhaps it's god's will why this thing happened.."God will never leave you empty, he will replace everything you loose, if he ask you to put something down, it's because he wants you to pick up something better"
I've been to that situation before..and it's really hard to lose someone you loved..just pray..God will give you strength...
Go girl!!! you can do it!!!
Good Luck!!! :)
2006-07-19 22:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to stop thinking about that person and move on
2006-07-19 21:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
use that knowledge on someone else
2006-07-19 23:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by shanikhan75 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋