ok me and my wife have been separated for 7 mos we have had sex off and on but it has been a long while since we had sex and she is missing bigdaddy:) but i want a divorce so sex with her is just sex and she knows i want a divorce so my question is should i or should i not? i mean the sex is dammmm good i just dont like her at all!
2006-07-19 21:39:54 · 16 answers · asked by DUSTY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
look friend u can have sex but that may lead u to further attachment towards her. u cant have 2 things at same time where 1 is getting divorce and the 2nd is a fully enjoyable sex.
2006-07-19 22:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by prem d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want a divorce? When you married, didn't you marry her for better or worse? (Oh, that's right, now a days, that doesn't mean a thing!)
Maybe you don't like her, big deal! It sounds to me that you two should start to "date" again and yes, you may "fall" out of the love you had for her when you got married to her. That is normal. But you made a commitment and you guys just might have to work it out whatever the problem may be.
Ok, I didn't really express myself real well, and I'm sorry. I hope this helps though.
2006-07-20 04:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't if I were you because she could use it against you in the divorce settlement. She could bring up that you are having sex with her so she is supplying one of needs and she should get more alimony for that. There are may actually be some female judge that will fall for that.
Find yourself a new honey - one that is both good in bed and a nice person who you will actually like! I am sure there is someone out there just waiting to meet you! :)
2006-07-20 04:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by runningviolin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she know that it's just sex? if she doesn't she may think your lying about the divorce and actually want to get back with her. if you're going to get divorced and still have sex with each toher then you both need to understand and accept that this is just sex and nothing more. good luck!
2006-07-20 04:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have sex with someone you dont like? Is that possible?
If it is, you're better off with a real damn good sex toy, my friend. What do you care about feelings, right?
2006-07-20 04:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first answerer should win the 10 points.
2006-07-20 04:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by A. Grigs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well man you know she is the one who cheated on you so you dont need that complications any more ... Go on with ur life and dont give her the joy of ur body
2006-07-20 04:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dun like her at all how do u like the sex part i mean do u imagin someone else?
u shouldnt do it this way u should be away from each other!
2006-07-20 05:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure you can find someone else who will love to have them some (big daddy love) move on to someone better you never know you might find better sex with someone else good luck
2006-07-20 04:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce and don't have sex. YOu can't have the cake and eat it too.
2006-07-20 04:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋