2006-07-19 21:28:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
she cant go to a doctor as she comes from a conservative family.i think she is 20 days pregnant.........
2006-07-19 21:32:16 · update #1
DO NOT let her take any medicines, herbs, etc. to try to abort the baby. This could cause birth defects or serious medical problems for the baby once it is born-- it is highly unlikely that it would cause a miscarriage anyway.
Adoption is always the first choice, or she could ask for support from her family.
Abortion is one way out (though I do not personally recommend it). Some clinics will need parental permission to do one, though.
Again, please do not let her take any medicines or herbs to induce a miscarriage. An old friend of mine did that, and her baby was born with a lot of problems. She regrets it to this day.
She will eventually have to go to the doctor, for her own health and for that of the baby. I'm sure that if your friend sits down with hher family and tells them what's going on, they'll agree. They may be upset for a while, but eventually they should agree that this baby will be worth it.
2006-07-19 21:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is some type of medicine, not sure how to get it or what it is called, that will allow her to basically miscarrage. It can really harm her if she doesnt know what she is doing....I know a girl who took it and had to stay in the shower for a whole day because she would not stop bleeding. The only thing that is ok about this is she wouldnt have the baby....if she doesnt want the baby though and wants a miscarrage I would atleast suggest abortion. Abortion.... Its really hard for women to do this....Most people think that its an easy way out but my best friend did it and it can have some bad effects on you emotional. If she plans to do that she really needs to research it and also she will need to seek some kind of councling afterwards...there are many teen pregnancy/pragnancy help centers that will councle her for free after an abortion. The only thing Ive heard women say is good about this is they didnt have to raise a child in the living situation they were in at the time. The only other option of course if aboption. These can also be hard for a women, you bond with your baby from day one and to have to carry your child for that long and give it up.....its a pretty hard thing for a women to deal with. Some women find this to be the easist of the 3 though because they know what they are atleast giving there child a better chance at a better life. They all can have benifits in away but I suggest for her to keep the baby, but I also believe in the right for a women to choose....so I will not say much more on the issue of keeping the baby because you have already stated that is not what she wants. No matter what she chooses please make sure she seeks councling and she does what she feels is right in her heart not what other want her to do.
2006-07-20 04:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by ga_lynn84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not agree with abortion, But it is a woman's right to do so if she wishes.. I know I was pregnant and I went to the clinic to have the abortion and i couldn't go through with it then I went through an adoption agency and did an open adotion and my son is now 3 yrs old and I have no regrets as I would have if I would have went through with the prior choice I made.. Give someone else a chance to be happy. As for the conservative family well, they are her family, they will love her regardless pregnant or not.. They might be dissapointed but They will be able to help her make the right choice.. Ultimatley Find someone else , there are millions of people waiting and your friend could be a blessing to someone who is unfortuante and cant have kids think hard about this it will be a decision you'll live with for the rest of your life and if you make the wrong choice you will have many regrets.. Good Luck with all..
2006-07-20 05:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its been less than 72 hours she could go to the health clinic and get the morning after pill. I'm guessing its been a lot longer though, in that case start thinking about adoptive parents or abortion. There is no "medicine" to make you not pregnant.
2006-07-20 04:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by A. Grigs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a loving family who cannot have their own children and give the baby up for adoption. Also she should go to a doctor or planned parenthood. They can give her all the information she needs to make her choice.
2006-07-20 04:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by PetsRule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Medicines for what? To murder an inocent baby?
Are you going to help your friend murder her inocent baby. If you are, you will live with regret and guilt for the rest of your life. When you have a baby you will look at him/her and think about the one you helped murder.
Put it up for adoption.
2006-07-20 04:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not punish that child by aborting it.
It did not ask to be brought into this world.
Your friend made a CHOICE to have sex! Sex
causes babies. Do not kill that baby, and do not
encourage her to do so.
Tell her to have the baby adopted. I beg of you
please!
2006-07-20 04:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To Your Friend
dont believe all that have the baby **** if u dont want it get an abortion
2006-07-20 04:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let someone else adopt the baby.
2006-07-20 04:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by ekaty84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoption!!!
2006-07-20 04:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by xogoodluckcharm18ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋