I still like my ex-girl friend. I always show her that i still like her and try to approach her. But, look like she is not much care about this relationship anymore. Will Girl feel irritating if i still showing i am loving her and hope we can back together.
2006-07-19 21:08:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it all depends why and how the relationship finished ....
she might feel irritated that you want to get back with her coz her feelings are not the same anymore .... on the other hand she can also feel irritate coz she don't want to her your feelings but she prefers that you just stay friends ... (even if that is rare)
... talk to her, if you see that she really is not interested then give her some space, don't call her as often and don't be around her as much ..... she might miss you and come back for you herself ... the more you persist on having her back the more of a cold shoulder you are going to get ..... unfortunately when we know that someone really loves us and really wants us we push them away .... coz we know they always be there .... which is selfish i know ... but both gurls and guys do it .... !!!!
... i know it might be hard for you to let her go, but there is this saying that i like a lot ....
''when you love something, let it go ..... if it comes back to you it's your's, if it doesn't ... it never was'''
good luck xx
2006-07-19 21:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by sue f 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
will u be irritating if a girl shows that she loves but u don't and try to approach like what u do now?
it's hurt to see she has move on when u'r not. if so, love her unconditionally. show only if ask, give only when she need. don't bind her because she is no longer urs. still, this is a hard way for u because there's no guarantee she'll be urs again.
all the better is to move on. if she is urs, ull be together again somehow.
2006-07-20 04:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by May FL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iguess it all depends on the reason the relationship ended. Trust me just give it some time and if u guys are meant to be together she will come back.
i have been through this and it took me 3 years to realise that the person i lost in my relationship was the one that was meant for me and now we are together and things are great. it was a long time but the wait was worth it for both of us.
Good luck and hope your patience pays off in the end.
2006-07-20 04:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off for a while, space either will make the heart grow stronger, and realize true feelings. The worse thing you can do is smother her. Just give her some space, and see what happens. If she still isn't interested, chalk it up as a learning experience, and find a girl that appreciates you.
2006-07-20 04:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by kazoo1991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when c love u u left her alone in this world and now u need her friend ship then u call her back girl are to soft and sweet if c fall in love with u that mean on one else come in her life but boy love every girl that is the problem just tell her u love him to much and remaining let on god what do next
2006-07-20 04:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by thakur4u5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you push the more she's going to not be interested.. let it go, move on, try dating other girls (it'll make you feel better).. its hard to let go of the one you love but if they don't love you you will only be hurting yourself.. girls like guys that are strong, you showed her you still cared now show her you don't care anymore. NOW you be the one to play hard to get..
2006-07-20 04:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by gottheanswer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love her in a distance... don't run after her, and in time if she is really meant for you, you could still be together. Hope but don't anticipate, yet show you still care by doing things for her but it doesn't necessarily mean you'd do it yourself, ask her friends for help..
2006-07-20 04:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wondering and just ask! yea you run the risk of getting shot down but at least this way you have to move on instead of just floundering over yourself and emotions!!
2006-07-20 04:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it, try to talk it out for yourself. See what she really thinks, but don't push it. Let her decide. It also depends on the reason you both broke up, but not entirely.
2006-07-20 04:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, very irritated, and somewhat stalked. by doing that you are only guaranteeing that she will never want to even speak to you again.
2006-07-20 04:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋