2006-07-19 20:38:34 · 21 answers · asked by harry 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
That depends on the person's point of view on the situation. you should turn to either your church or the ones closest to you for advice, but ultimately, the decision is up to you.
2006-07-19 20:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by In God's Hands 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is different things to look at when making the decision to wait or not.
From a religions stand point I believe that it is a sin to have sex out of marriage in most religions.
From a moral stand point it can also be wrong. Sluts are not called sluts because they waited, know what I mean. Even if you have one partner, why not wait to get married?
Health wise it is better. There are so many diseases out there. Why risk it?
And the fact of pregnancy. This who's my baby's daddy is getting out of hand. Young boys not ready or willing to take the responsibility are walking away and the girls and their parents are left with these kids.
Why not wait, it is worth the wait. The instant gratification is not worth all that comes with it.
2006-07-20 05:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Umm Ali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is just a ceremony and a piece of paper. What matters is if they are in love. If they are in love, I say go for it. If not, then they should not, because sex is so intimate that it will cause them to fall in love. Hollywood actors constantly fall in love with those they have to be physically intimate with in movies (I'm not necessarily talking about sex here; even a passionate kiss can have that effect), and this is why we hear so much about them leaving each other for someone else.
This goes for both girls and boys, as it has nothing to do with gender.
2006-07-20 09:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by galactonerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, girls and boys should not have sexual relations. Men and women decide what is the right choice for them at that moment in their life.
2006-07-20 16:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by seven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No for both sexes. Sex should be saved for marriage...having sex before marriage, and especially with people other than who you eventually marry, tends to cheapen it, and the married couple will be more likely to divorce.
I've heard the excuse that you have to "try" the person out beforehand. First off, good lovers are made, not born. Secondly, with communication, a married couple can have a really great sex life.
2006-07-20 07:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if girls are having sex before marriage, it stands to reason that they are having it with the boys. Usually. Girls can have sex with other girls, too.
And I'd say it's your body, your choice. If you want to have sex, then do so. It is a natural function of your body, it's enjoyable, and it can be comforting. Personally, I don't want to marry someone only to discover on my wedding night that he doesn't know what he's doing, he's too short for me to feel anything, or he doesn't keep himself clean.
Refraining from sex until marriage is your choice, of course. It's prominent in religion because it is a way for others to control your body. If you want someone else in control of your body, that's up to you.
2006-07-20 05:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by ninusharra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
genuinely everyone needs to prepare the potential set. for some used and skilled is favored, for some new adventures after marriage is the perfect. yet there are un printed regulations. a heavily used and pushed Rolls Royce won't be seen as favorably as a very gently used Lexus. needless to say there are adequate human beings obtainable to furnish all the prospect to do the considered necessary for all life.
2016-11-02 09:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot more to that question than right or wrong. Not only is it a moral issue but you need to also look at it from the medical side of it too.
The decision is truly your own but consider all risk factors if you decide to proceed.
2006-07-20 07:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by GirlNextDoor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong... especially if you're underaged.
This is not something to be taken lightly, like "is it right for me to girl out when I just know her for a week?" kinda thing....
When an underaged girlfriend complains to her parents/teachers, you'll get into serious trouble.
2006-07-19 20:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by annmohdali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure. but most of say that sex before marriage is sinful. the right way is to have it, after marriage. what is amarriage in the first place? a licence to have sex witht he same person without getting caught? it depends on how people see sex as. one is to satisfy their lust and their partner's. one who have sex before marriage,knows what they are doing and what they have to lose. sex is sumthign beautiful. try not to discriminate it by having it so cheaply. sex before marriage, is sinful..and after is..normal? it all depends on one's mind.
2006-07-19 20:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on cultures and religions...In my opinion it is much more valuable 2 hve ur 1st sexual relationship with ur wife/husband! If u knw what I mean!!!!
2006-07-19 21:02:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋