2006-07-19 20:35:28 · 8 answers · asked by BrianL 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
HA! Perfect timing! A week & a half ago, my fiance, who I've bee nwith for four years, left me for an ex-boyfriend; the same guy who broke up her first marriage and who also tried braking US up when we first got together. Then I also find out she's been cheating on me w/ him for the last 3 months.
Now she wants the apartment, the car, the kids-EVERYTHING! She's the one leaving, but I'm the one who has to go? Oh that's nice. Tonight she even -get this- told me "I don't see why you're having such a hard time with this. If you really feel that bad, why don't you just kill yourself; it'll make this a LOT easier; and then !@##$ can move in."
Jaded?
F*&^ yeah!
Bitter?
You bet!
2006-07-19 20:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i could easily say yes but then I realize that what ever that relationship was it wasn't love. True love is real, it does't hurt you or make you bitter. If they don't or did't love you back then you were just used or played for what ever you gave up because you thought it was real love. This world is a stage and their is some oscare winning performances out there. You just have to be able to see whose actors and whose real. you can mostly judge by their actions from the heart. the heart don't lie, the mind can be fooled. I have loved a guy for over 24 years, and we have never even kissed. He knows how I feel and It was love at first sight for the both of us, but he chose not to use me, and even today He lives close by with his new wife and son, and I with my 4 kids, and just month ago we saw each other and It was just like the 1st time. why didn't we ever get togetjher, due to a misunderstanding on both our parts we hurt each other in the 1st month and the fear on his part of being hurt by me again was too much. too deep. (I thought he didn't care, and he almost hurt his brother over me. so even with that the love still is alive even though were not physically together. Its a spiritual love now. It keeps me warm.HIs mom and I are close. HIs son called me his mom once. so I'm blessed to be able to have found a love so deep. we have 20 years of letters and phone talks and xmas gifts.
2006-07-19 23:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by NOAH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it left me jaded for a long time. I'm still a little jaded now but i'm definetely more open minded about relationships nowadays.
2006-07-19 20:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by mangobuyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i loved a fellow and i know he loved me too ,we both felt happy but eventually we broke up for no reason at all!neither of us has been able to love anyone else since we broke up
2006-07-19 20:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few times, but I gotten over it.
2006-07-19 20:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Judas Rabbi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah however I come for more
2006-07-19 20:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by jdhayman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, sadly, but I recovered
2006-07-19 20:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I can't help it, I need it.
2006-07-19 20:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋