i am basically a shy girl.i very rarely speak to boys.but now i met my old classmate.i spoke with him.i feel he is very friendly.now i like him. how can i know if he likes me or not?if he does not like me,how can i make him love me?plz help me......
2006-07-19 20:26:04 · 17 answers · asked by cheenu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think i love him
2006-07-19 20:27:40 · update #1
You know him better then me.So you have to decide ultimately what he feels for you.Try to talk less and try to divert your mind in some other activities.Start meeting other people,Dont ignore him but try as you have some thing in your mind.Let him ask you the question or you be open and tell him that you love him,but for some day be a bit reserved with him and talk more to others in front of him .Never be a looser even he doesn't love you please don't loose your heart other wise you will loose ypur way.Take care any querry mail me on psrk26678@hotmail.com or call me on 9870108903.
2006-07-19 21:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your question and answers before me. You already have some good suggestions. I was about to skip answering you when something caught my attention. In additional details you wrote "i think i love him". Now this "think" may prove to be difficult and confusing, even from your point of view. Here at Yahoo you are dealing with complete strangers yet you are a little doubtful or still shy?! First check with yourself ten times.
Another point which comes to my mind is that you have been shy and rarely speaking to boys. How about your ability to judge on these aspects? A person meeting after a long gap and is very friendly now, you start liking him....rest is suspense. I don't want to confuse you nor doubting intentions of both of you. Friendship to Love life turning into a successful marriage needs plentiful maturity, and what not ...but great inputs into family life. Since it is you to whom I am communicating and not that boy, please assess everything with down to earth approach for yourself, particularly for a girl with the kind of shy and close nature like yours and reaching the stage of making such relations.
Don't get discouraged but take your time, avail and fully exploit this as an opportunity to test yourself and your prospective companion for what you are looking to head for.
My best wishes for you.
2006-07-19 23:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by helpaneed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answere is best answered by your self no one can give you advise.
It worked for my Girl F we are married for the last 15Yrs
Meet him five days on the trot then stop meeting him all together
He should call you within three days if he doesn't then forget
If he calls tell him you were busy so couldn't meet and tell you will call and hang up as though you are busy.
Wait till he calls up which he will (next day) meet him on that day and then everything will fall in line naturally.
Best of luck
2006-07-19 22:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Loviingly_Yours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothings better than a straight approcah.
If you wait for long, or try round about way, the delay may result in him getting another girl.
So hurry. Best wishes to you.
2006-07-19 21:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by bharat b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply get a bit romantic with him, like ask him about stars moon and other romantic stuff.
Quitely observe his reaction and expression on face.
you will get da answer.
2006-07-19 22:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Fishi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy girl, i am a very shy boy from kolkata. love girls but i cant meet them really. according to discussions among our collage group{only boys} i found all boys are based towards girls. so i think u can directly propose him. he will never mind. he will either agree or disagree. u can also spend time with him and see where fate goes.
2006-07-19 20:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by bike-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to love yourself, and be the person you'd like to be with. You will be able to be with the right person if you don't settle for less than equal, once you do that.
2006-07-19 21:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by jennifae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would just let time run its course. You will know if he likes you by the way he aproaches you, and talks to you. And with time your friendship might grow stonger. Good luck!
2006-07-19 20:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not belong in the "Dining Out" section. Reported.
2006-07-20 03:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by kayleigh w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just open up.
see if he wants you meet his friends, if yes then he tooo loves you or vice versa
2006-07-20 17:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by guyss_2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋