ever go away? Its said time heals all wounds..What do you think?
2006-07-19 20:22:08 · 14 answers · asked by Hea Dude ! 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Grand mother 1905-2006
2006-07-19 20:31:26 · update #1
I think the pain will never go if your parents die and my brother
i think i will die whan they go...
is not fer i dont like that. i dont understend god why he give to us this, why we die??? why?why?
i wanna die before them
And i think if other die the pain will go, just you need time, you will see.TIME
sorry for not good answer but is how i think
wish you all best and take care
2006-07-20 10:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think time has a beautiful way of dulling wounds but not truly healing the type of pain you speak of. When someone is truly close to you in this life and leaves be for you do, a part of you will always feel like you got a raw deal/that it isn't fair/or that they left too soon. But you in time learn to make peace, if you decide to let the pain make you wise and not hold you in its place. But you have to make the decision. The hardest part is feeling like if you get past the pain, that you're doing an injustice to your loved one. But that's not at all what they want. Just as if it were the other way around, you would want them to continue living as well.
2006-07-20 03:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by prettylittlepowderkeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person had a lot of pain. I don't think they will feel it any more. But if u are talking about urself. It will take sometime to get over the pain. I had 2 people that I was close to died close to each other. It was my mom mother that died the year before. And the nest year my dad father died. And that hurt me lot since I lost 2 that close together. And both of them was close to holidays. But it will get easser. Some people think it werid that u keep talking about them like they was still there. But sometime it make things easser to get over. For me any way. Write things down how u feel about the person or make a peom about the person or a story about them. But that might make things little easser for u. Just remember it will take time to get over and the pain will go a way. I hope this help u out.
2006-07-20 03:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does mostly, especially when the person died when u were young.
My dearest English teacher dies when i was 9 years old in Pri 5.. She died in a bus accident.
I cannot describe how sad i was at that time, it was too painful to describe. I was i agony for all those years, even till now i still remember her vague figure.. But times did healed the pain.
The memory is faint now, but she will remain in my heart and deepest memory forever, and with this memory i will walk forward, as the spur of my life.
I do hope she is still alive and can see how well my English is now.. I must thank her really...
2006-07-20 03:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience is that for the first few years, longer for some, the pain is always as intense as when you first find out. The thing that improves over this period is that you experience the pain less and less frequently.
When the memories of the good times you had with them begin to outnumber the episodes of pain over losing them - that is when the healing is starting to win out, in my book.
Yes, it all does take time, though. One of the keys is just feeling what you feel - going with it, crying, screaming and laughing it out. That helps things move along.
2006-07-20 03:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does. My Mother passed away and two years later my wife died. Now three years after her I am finally able to deal with all of it. For a long time after my Mother died when something big happened I would find myself picking up the phone and dialing her before it dawned on me she was gone now. Just old habits you know. Now I still think of them both very often but the pain has gone away and I can smile when I think of them now instead of hurting inside.
2006-07-20 03:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Big Daddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over time, the pain hurts less intensely, less frequently.
a lot like a bruise that gets better over time.
i don't think ALL the pain ever goes away absolutely. But it does get to a place where you can remember the person with fondness, and be pleased that you were able to know them.
2006-07-20 03:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone greives in their own way and some grieve longer than others.....and yes time heals all wounds..but you know if you think about your grandma you have all those memories that will be with you always ..I know i do , and my grandmother passed a few years ago but i have all that she taught me right here in my heart so she is with me always.....Hope yours will be too
2006-07-20 03:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to mourn for a while and to always keep their memory but by letting it cripple you hurt their memory!
No easy way to get over a loss, but I am sure he would be glad to know he is missed!
He or she would not want you to be crippled by this though, so by living a life of honor, people will reflect that to the friends he had. People associate you to the people you are friends with so be a great person and honor his memory!
2006-07-20 03:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by happymrzot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will i lost 3 people at one time due to a drunk driver and both of my parents since then.
Time does work through the healing process.
Call your local Hospice for some personal free help.
2006-07-20 03:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by getit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain will ease, the memories will be with you forever.... I still want to ring my Mum, and she's been gone for 7 years.... so I tell her stuff anyway, I sort of hope she's around looking out for me.
2006-07-20 03:29:19 · answer #11 · answered by apophylite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋