I have a son w/ a man who knows I am a lesbian. But I don't know what to do when It comes to my child about leaving. At the same time I don't know any single lesbians to get to know...I'm lost :o(. So I thought well being w/ him is better than being alone. I just feel like I am dieing inside. I miss the female companionship so much. We fight a lot and I called the cops to get him to leave and the cops said that he doesn't have to. I don't know what I can do to get him to leave. My mother lives w/ us also; I take care of her. So I can't just up and leave. If I could just meet someone else...:o( Any creative break up tips?
2006-07-19 20:21:36 · 4 answers · asked by Sapiosexual 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My son is staying w/ me of course...he is my life. Should I stay until he is 18 or what?
2006-07-19 20:44:54 · update #1
if your not happy thats no good, i feel that if you want to leave go for it do it for u and your son how can you be the best mother when you feel like your dying inside?? just do what makes you happy and plus if your fighting all the time thats also not good for your son! well hope you find happiness soon!!
2006-07-19 21:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by beautiful_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So when you leave, what is going to happen to your son?
Grow up and start thinking of your son and not just your own selfish feelings.
I feel sorry for your man.Get your life straight by loving your son and growing up.
2006-07-20 03:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, My girl is Bi and I let her have her girlfriend. I'm fine with that and I don't get in the way of her and her girlfriend! And no, I don't join in, nor do I ask about it! Shes happy, I'm happy, and its been 3 years. Its only cheating if you don't know about it or don't approve of it! In the end, she comes back to me! Usually horny! Good luck!
2006-07-20 03:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you put yourself in the "position" you are in. you had a child with him. it is father and son that are the victims.
2006-07-20 03:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋