ok I first want to say that I love my husband very much, we have been married for 5 yrs and together for 8 yrs, he has had more partners then me, I have only BEEN with him, and I am intrested in women to but only done very little with them, he has said that he wants to have a threesome with another girl and I am thinking about it, I just dont know if I could do it and not get jelous, he says that he loves me but it is nature to want more then one partner, and I must admit I sometimes wish I had experamented a little, so the question is should I throw caution to the wind and have a threesome or let him and I have a free pass without one another?
2006-07-19 20:08:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's a complex issue because of the potential emotional and mental consequences it offers. You have no way of knowing how you're going to react until it happens so your taking a big chance. This is not to say do or don't do it, but rather to point out that you need to be really sure you are prepared for the aftermath.
Also, can you watch your husband, whom you love be physical with another woman?
2006-07-19 20:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by sweet/jennie/leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOO DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!! Seriously It will ruin your relationship in the long run it may seem fun and exciting now but if you love your husband dont tempt fate!!! I dont know one single person that has done this that has ended up staying with their spouse in the end why ruin a good thing that you already have? It will only lead to more cheating and jealousy and not trusting one another and it NEVER works out... Why dont you try role playing and like go out in public somewhere and meet each other all over again act like strangers and go home and screw each other or something like that and that will put some excitement into your love life or if your husband is willing to do so if you are interested in women why dont you have him dress like one (at home of course) and go down on you and act like a woman (this would definitely take a very open minded man but it could work) but the answer is never adding a 3rd person!
2006-07-20 03:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no what are u talking about. this is ur husband he made a vow to love u till death. ok ok what guy dont want to 3some. still if u feel that u do want to try it then go 4 it. if u dont want to then dont. if he cant except that then he needs to go. i mean he should love u and care for u only. so yeah it will be wierd seeing another girl pleasing ur man but u might not like it. the only problem i c is him liking it and wanting more without u. so yeah this is a hard one just do what u want. do u want to try it and c if u like it or u just want it to be u 2 forever. dont let him screw another without u there. u need to be present. so no free pass unless u guy are all together. hope this helps. good luck
2006-07-20 03:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No free pass. You both should do it together. That way there will be no questions flowing through your minds. If you are curious about another woman then do it. My wife wanted to try it and we did as a couple with her friend. We do it from time to time. I love my wife as much as before if not more now. Its about the sex and how good you can make it. No emotions are involved.
2006-07-20 03:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go there !! I promise you insecurities and jealousy will wreck your relationship if you do. It may seem like you and your husband can handle the situation. But just wait until he spends a little extra time with the other women. Maybe kisses her longer, or spends more time pleasing her. It will hurt you.
Try new things with just each other. Even watch porno, use toys, read erotica. But please don't invite anyone else into your bed. Your relationship will never recover.
2006-07-20 03:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Teslajuliet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're looking for trouble. The percentage of relationships that go bad due to threesomes and their consequences is very high. Whatever you do, think it through..... VERY CAREFULY.
2006-07-20 03:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to do all these things, after marriage, it is wrong, foolishness and bad psychology.
Tell him to maintain some decency and sanctity in married relationship.
He is dragging you to ditch.
Take care and behave your self.
2006-07-20 03:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see Ur thinking he is in love with the other chick lol
men can separate the idea of love and sex easily and i think that Ur husband lusts this other chick but LOVES you
so yes i think you should let him have his fun as long as you know that he is yours....
2006-07-20 03:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by marius c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
threesome
2006-07-20 03:21:03 · answer #9 · answered by jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weigh the pros & cons carefully. It's not worth it.
2006-07-20 03:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋