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Ok, so my best friend is really starting to aggrivate me because of some things that she says and does. I love her to death but she sure does let guys walk all over her. She has 2 guy friends that i guess you can say they are friends with benefits. Anyways, she has this thing where she will go over there house and when she thinks shes not getting treated right she leaves the guys house and calls me with her problems. I guess shes having a hard time excepting that these guys shes talking to dont want a relationship with her. So, she tells me shes never gonna talk to them again and then days later shes back to talkin to them again. She driving me nuts. I already tried talkin to her and that didnt work. What do i do now??

Answer 1

try to make it clear that you are not a thing to take out her anger frustration and so called problems which she herself is creating. she can take advice and improve her state rather than running behing guys and creating problems

Answer 2

wow not ur what they call a true friend. she lucky to have someone like u. still we have a huge problem. she wont listen to u. she keeps doing this and im sure in inside she hurting cuz im sure inside she wants love. so the only thing u can do is tell her that u just cant help her no more. what i mean is u tried and she dont listen. so why are u wasting ur breath when all u say goes in to her ear and out the other. just tell her that u need to have a serious talk and tell her. be really deep in this convo. tell her that u have done all u can do but there only so much u can do. she needs to have a drive to go and do it. these guys are screwing her and loving it. then she leaves and they can like continue with thier normal lives. so just tell her that u love her and all but she needs to stop. that u dont want to hear it anymore cuz u tried and are tired of seeing her hurt. ur her friend. ur allowed to be honest and all. so just tell her ur true feeling. what u feel inside even the stuff ur afraid to say. what if she ends up catching an std. then u will be i should have tried harder. so talk to her one last time and make it a deep one. if she still fails to take ur advice well then there nothing u can do. such a good friend u r. i hope she sees the light.good luck

Answer 3

I'll give you a little advice on how to deal with your "friend". First, if she has more than one "friend, w/benefits", she's liable to catch just about anything, and has no self respect for herself. I don't know her personally, but I've had a few friends that were in that same set up. The best advice you can give to her is tell her she needs to sit down and evaluate her situation, and if you are tired of hearing about it, TELL HER!!!!

Answer 4

begin by telling her that you are very sympathetic. You have her trust already as a friend. What you need to do is slowly convince her that the only way is gay. Once you go down on her she will never bother those guys again.

Answer 5

SUNSPOTS selson Blue and tinver lotion will keep them off and rid you of the problem forever. I had them when I was younger and used selson blue on the shower left on for twenty minutes then wash off. Rub Tinver Lotion let stay over night.

Answer 6

you are the virtual shoulder to cry on, she wants to vent out her frustrations and you are a good listener, so you need to feel good about being able to be her leaning post, not to worry lots of people use others to vent, this does not mean they want advice they just need to talk about it with a third party out look! love roccks!

Answer 7

Ignore her immediately. She is not your best friend. She is only using you. She knows what to do her self. Stop bothering your self about her. Mind your things.

Answer 8

u quit

Answer 9

really bad (*)