They guy of my dreams won't even talk to me. He knows I like him, but something was going on with him and my friend. And now my friend won't talk to me or fill me in on anything. All of a sudden, the guy's messenger status says, "Girls are dumb" And i don't know if something happened between them or what. I really want him to notice me and like me. He's a real jerk though, and he's a player, BIG TIME! But he is SO hot and pretty nice when he wants to be. I just don't know what to do. I can NEVER think of anything to say to him. I don't know what he wants to hear. If there's anyone who can give me some advice, i would appreciate it! I'm dying here because he's all i can think about and he is acting like this. Some one please answer as soon as possible and tell me what to say to him!!!! THANK YOU!!!!
2006-07-19 19:06:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Girls grow up to be ladies, boys grow up to be bigger boys. It sounds like he just not ready for a relationship. Be patient if he is the one you want to be with give him space and time. Sometimes a guy only wants what he can't have, go out with someone else just for a movie, just let them know up front that you only want to be friends. See how he reacts to that. Good luck!
2006-07-19 19:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by TLM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you said he is a jerk and a player....so what do you want with someone like that???? Have respect for yourself and know that you deserve better than that. Don't worry about what he wants to hear. Talk to him about things you talk to friends about. If he likes you he does but you can't make someone like you.
Good luck.
2006-07-19 19:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by JMidd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT?!?! You should never go out with a friends ex or something like it, ESPECIALLY if you only like him for looks! You said he is a Jerk and A 'Player', but you still like him because he is hott?!?! It shouldn't matter, you should like someone for WHO they are (which I cant see why you would like him for him) not what they look like.
2006-07-19 19:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight...
He's a jerk
He's a player - and he plays everyone...
So why do you want him?
If he's nice when he wants to be, you're being played.
Take my advice and find someone else who will treat you right and not play you.
2006-07-19 19:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you kindly change your question. Not all the boys are stupid. The way I see it, you are the one who's stupid. Why try hard on someone who doesn't want you. Here's the advice, try the opposite way.
2006-07-19 19:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by w_ordz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quote: . He's a real jerk though, and he's a player, BIG TIME
alright so theres your answer!!!!!!!!!ditch the man
2006-07-19 19:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by sweete_017 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, my grandaughter has the answer to that question..
Girls go to College to get knowledge and Boys go to Jupiter to get stupider... my grandaughter is 5 yrs old
How smart is that
2006-07-19 19:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by grannycombs2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he has a great ego. he will not go with girls cause he thinks that he is mr. intelligent. is he good at studies? then beat him in his own game. study hard and get straight As.when he comes to you say, guys are dum.
2006-07-19 19:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a guy just like that LoL and there's nothing you can do I suggest you forget him sadly .
2006-07-19 20:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by Pop princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was like that too my crush he suddenly found out i like dhim alot from my diary and his cousins which are my best friends stopped talking to me 9this happened in 2002 i told him im please dont hate me then he said he didnt hate me and he said he was just surprised and all and his cousins were just surprised too we're friends again too
2006-07-19 19:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋