Ok, well do you all remember my situation before? I kept reposting the same problem: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;... ...well, guess what guys? my ex finally texted me last night at around 12am and said "Monday, I want to take you out to dinner". I was already asleep, so i couldnt say anything when my phone received his text. He also said "Is that cool? Let me know, ok?" So when I woke up I saw the texts and I, getting all anxious, said "Awwww, sure. I would love to go out with you for dinner on Monday.It's really sweet of you". Then I get a response a few hrs later n he said "im glad you said yes". N i texted "im glad you asked me. it was sweet of you". and thats our convo for the day.no other words. can u all tell me if i did the right/wrong thing? and can u tell me if, according to my ex's texts, that he might have somethin in store for me...help me, ok guys?
2006-07-19 17:53:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my god such a big story and the solution is in link shown below
2006-07-19 17:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read through the earlier question, but I feel your pain. It seems like you're working too hard trying to figure out where this guy is coming from. I can relate - I used to do this a lot too when I was young (I'm 40 now, and I'm guessing you're nowhere near that). Bottom line - if he's that hard to read, you're probably reading too much into what he's saying. Do you really want to work that hard to be with someone?
You deserve better - either this guy needs to be more straightforward with how he feels, or you need to find someone who's willing to make it clear to you. Good luck!
2006-07-20 01:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Trinaunz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is taking advantage of you. He knows he can play around and still come back to you and have your love too.
My advice is to move on, there are other guys out there. Once he realises he has lost you he will be a lot more attracted to you.
Then the decision and power to choose is yours and not his.
The sooner you move on the better.
2006-07-20 01:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go out for dinner wiht him, and see what when wrong in your relationship, and try to work it out. It might be hard, but give a guy a chance if hes wiling to change, but just remeber if he broke your heart ot left you for someone eles, just be ready for it, be strong and show him that you wont take no crap from no one. Hope that can help! :)
2006-07-20 01:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by confussed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ease up everyone this obviously important to her. I hope you have a great time.
2006-07-20 01:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by frogspeaceflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be rebound, he may want to see you or couldn't get anyone for that night and contacted you. watch and look for the motives without asking outright.
2006-07-20 00:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really cannot understand what your question is. You rambled too much. Anyway, I doubt if anyone can answer it for you since they don't know you, him or your situation. Please stop repeating the question. It's annoying!
2006-07-20 00:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're wasting everyone's time asking the same questions.....
2006-07-20 00:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by Ron T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just talk to him in person, instead of all this texting crap?
2006-07-20 00:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me guess, you are sitting with ur so called boy friend,
and posting these questions, making us a fool,
but we are smart :-)
2006-07-20 00:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by who is this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋