Do guys come crawling back to there exes when they left them for someone eles?
2006-07-19 17:51:58 · 9 answers · asked by confussed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Women are guilt-prone. Men are regret-prone. IF they find themselves in a better position with that someone else they surely won't come back because there's nothing to regret. But if they find it getting worse then they will most probably get back to there ex OR continue looking. But this is not really a "negative" about guys. Not that im taking their side but im a nurse and have been counselling. Everybody would like to find themselves in a place or relationship where they know they would be safe, they can be themselves, they will be accepted and loved right? Anybody who does not feel this can surely not stay long in that place or relationship. One thing's for sure women and men who broke up with their exes had a REASON for a person breaking up. So if the person comes back to you.. you don't have to feel that you were just reconsidered because his 3rd party didn't work out for him. The issue is yourself, because it is you who will make the decision whether you would want to risk again with this guy.
2006-07-19 17:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that doesn't usually happen. If he leaves her for someone else, that just means he was looking for a reason to get out in the first place.
Dirty little secret - I had someone leave a relationship to begin one with me once. I thought it was because the two of them weren't right for each other and I was The One (I was young and stupid at the time). Guess what happened? Two years later, he told me he needed his space and left me for someone else. And...I found out he'd done the same thing in a previous relationship, too. I think that's an example of a more common pattern with this kind of guy.
2006-07-19 17:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Trinaunz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my husband left his ex due to infidelity........and there was no interest in going back. Smart man and lucky me........she had far too many problems and men in order for him to feel responsible or not good enough. Her loss, my gain.
2006-07-19 18:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They might, but why would u let him crawl back to you? u deserved better. Forget about him!
2006-07-19 18:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always. Why is that what you want. If he left you once, he will probably do it again, especially if he did it to go to someone else. You don't need that.
2006-07-19 17:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea usually they do b/c they got shutout of 'getting some' from their ohther partner..and they try to act srry saying it was a stupid thing they've done....kick him to the curb
*good luck8
2006-07-19 17:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by ange 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes they try to it just depends on the man himself and if the women he left lets him come back
2006-07-19 17:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by beaiipurple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they do. Sometimes it's for all the right reasons and sometimes it's for the wrong ones.
hope everything works out and good luck!
2006-07-19 17:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they do because they realize that the grass isnt always greener on the other side.
2006-07-19 17:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by NIKFAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋