Well heres the story, When he was born i did a bit of the usual post partum thing and i thought that I and I alone had to deal with him. I was scared if i let him cry while my husband was sleeping that he would get mad cause he had to work ( he wouldnt have, but i had it in my head) so for the first 3 weeks after having my son i did nothing but watch him sleep, feed him and change him. I didnt sleep or eat and would wait till the last minute to go to the bath room. When I finally fell asleep no one could wake me for over 18 hours. When i woke up they asked me what was wrong and i told them how i felt. I agreed to let my mom take my son for a few days so i could recoop. she had him about a week and a half. about 2 weeks after that my sister was put in intensive care and my mom asked me if her and dad could "borrow" my son to distract themselves from their worrys over my sister. and i agreed. It soon became apparent they werent going to give him back.....
2006-07-19 17:46:17 · 4 answers · asked by naightengale 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
every time i would take him home they would come get him back. like they would come visit and pick him up and walk out with him while i was in the bathroom (that type of thing). well i soon found out i was pregnate again. and we got a new moblie home moved in to where we lived. we had to stay with my parents during this prosses. when my husband and i whent home my parents kept my son. they put up the front that they were going to let him come home but every few days they would take him back again. so for the first 2 years of his life he pretty much lived with them. i finally got him back after my mom filed for costody of my kids and lost. But my son is forever beging to go to grandmas. and then wont come home. (hes now 5) the big problem is that we live next door to my parents and the land our home is on belongs to my mom. and i am scared if i try to move him away from her he will A: hate me even more for taking Grandma away and B: my mom would try to get costody again. HELP plese.
2006-07-19 17:55:09 · update #1
First it was really screwed up what ur mom did to begin with....second it is her falt that ur son is acting the way he is...the longer that u have him with u the more he will exept it and want to be home...try puting him in sports he is old enough for t-ball...i would also try takeing him to councleing to find out if he was brainwashed in way from ur mother and to get to his feelings about why he want to go there all the time...she could have told him some really hjorrible things about u that u dont know aobut...and then i would also only let him see her if it is a supervised visit.
2006-07-19 18:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by beaiipurple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definetely need to stand up to grandma and make her see that this is your child. I can so understand this my in-laws act and think as if my children were theirs and it has reached a point where i have to put my foot down. Sure they want grandma so they can get what they want when they want it but YOU are the parent GET YOUR CHILD BACK AND HE WILL COME TO LOVE YOU
2006-07-20 00:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by confused/hurt/angry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem, and theyre probably spoiling him, but thats ur child just go over there get his stuff and take ur child back
2006-07-20 01:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by cherrybc032000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u mean they aren't going to give him back? He is your son. They have to....how long have they had him for?
2006-07-20 00:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Chela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋