my boyfriend and i want kids but just cant seem to get pregnant. back in august last year i took a test and it said we were pregnant but a few weeks later i got my period. we were sad cause we both wanted a baby. we have been together for almost two years. please be serious and please nothing stuipid.
2006-07-19 17:30:21 · 4 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im on birth control right now to stop that from happening but when we r ready for one money wise and living wise then we want one. right now we r waiting until we either get married or really ready for one.
2006-07-20 05:09:28 · update #1
I think you should see a specialist and get some professional advice.
2006-07-19 17:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start first by doing the right thing and get married. A child deserves a stable environment with committed parents. Children are not objects or rag dolls to just pop out whenever you feel like it like you see in Hollywood. It seems you have been given the gift of time, so you should start PLANNING for your kids by saving money and figuring out what you will do after they arrive. Will there be medical bills? Will you be able to stay home with them? How will you afford all the diapers, formula, clothes, crib, toys, baby food, etc. Your lives will change drastically FOREVER once they arrive, and it is so much better for them when the parents are committed to one another. It sounds old fashioned, but it is wise advice. Then, quit trying so hard to conceive and it will happen. If it doesn't happen, then just enjoy the life you were given or pursue alternative methods. It took my parents 7 years to have me after they had given up. I don't know what that says about anything, but just so you know. It is unfair when a couple wants a child and cannot have one when there are people who have 100 kids who shouldn't be having kids. But since you have time, starting planning for their future well-being. Please!
2006-07-20 00:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by shygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this must be very frustrating but you are going to have to stop trying. When you try so hard you get stressed and that is the reason why your not getting pregnant. The time you will get pregnant is when your not trying or stressing about it.
I hope everything works out and I will say prayer for you.
2006-07-20 00:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. that happened to me. The doctor said I would never be able to get pregnant because of me being a guy.
2006-07-20 00:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋