Ok, well do you all remember my situation before? I kept reposting the same problem: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjEe_mIajndjZGI64dFSV5fsy6IX?qid=20060718170448AABekVJ ...well, guess what guys? my ex finally texted me last night at around 12am and said "Monday, I want to take you out to dinner". I was already asleep, so i couldnt say anything when my phone received his text. He also said "Is that cool? Let me know, ok?" So when I woke up I saw the texts and I, getting all anxious, said "Awwww, sure. I would love to go out with you for dinner on Monday.It's really sweet of you". Then I get a response a few hrs later n he said "im glad you said yes". N i texted "im glad you asked me. it was sweet of you". and thats our convo for the day.no other words. can u all tell me if i did the right/wrong thing? and can u tell me if, according to my ex's texts, that he might have somethin in store for me...help me, ok guys?
2006-07-19 17:17:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ys of coure ur ex has something in store for you to hear but dont think for the worst just go and be cool and calm about it.thats all you can do for the time being and just accept what he has to say to you good or bad and be happy that he is still in your life.hey at least you got that from your ex i dont even talk to any of my exs.
2006-07-19 17:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by ningamunkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you're wrong for following your heart too much.. I said You'd better use your brain this time. You're ex-bf just seemed to play around with you knowing that you're still not over him. See, by the way he said "Monday, I want to take you out to dinner." he isn't asking you, he's commanding you, with that confidence that you'll say "YES" and you just did.
If he really has a thing for you then he must have not let you go when you dump him. He could have done everything to have you back in the firstplace, but he didn't and he didn't even answer your calls, or even ask how are you...
He invited you to a dinner just to have a company, nothing more, nothing less.. See, he even goes out with the girl, he took in replace of you..
He's torturing your feelings girl..
2006-07-20 00:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is playing around with you and your mind. If you jump when he calls he knows he has you where he wants you. If you go to dinner with him and have a good time some of your feelings may come back. If he says something about getting back together with you, then you should probably really think about it. 3 years is a long time to be with someone. You can always forgive but it's always hard to forget. If he wants you back maybe you should wait till he is mature enough to have a very serious relationship. But it is also your call. Just think about everything and don't rush anything. Good Luck Hun!
2006-07-20 00:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by littlepussycat_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he was a loser then and he is a loser now. Let this thing with him go! Believe me it is only a thing. It is not a real relastionship. If it was he would not have cheated on you or left you. Now that he is trying to come back your desperate, low self-esteem a ss is going to let him come back and walk all over you again. Because that is exactly what he is going to do. There will be another girl in the picture in less then a couple of months and you will be back on her again asking for help. I am not going to help you because you are not listening. But good luck to you anyway.
2006-07-20 00:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by my_first_love_85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only reason he is wanting to take you out is because this other girl is out of the picture. If he really wants to take you out, he couldn't even call you? He sent a text, how personal is that? He didn't even offer any other conversation. I think you should tell him to go and take a hike, he'll only end up hurting you again. You should have taken a page out of his book and ignored him like he has done to you.
2006-07-20 00:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he has something stored for you and i dont think you did the wrogn thing becuz ur feelings did the talkin for you, just before becuz if he did that once then he can do it again knowing that you will go back with him if things dont go right with another girl. just take care of yourself and have a great time at monday.
2006-07-20 00:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You done the right thing if that is where your heart is. But just becareful he is your ex for a reason
2006-07-20 00:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he asked you out to dinner, then he is obviously interested [duh], and if he is shy, then for him it would be akward to continue the conversation with you, kind of like when you say something completely from the heart, its hard to muster up any other kind of conversation, by what you txted you said nothing wrong... i hope this helps you out =)
its a guy thing
2006-07-20 00:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can't really answer that question for you. i guess all i can tell you is to listen to your heart and just do what you feel is right. i hope it goes ok.
ps. and if it doesn't go well at least you got to eat! lol
2006-07-20 00:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋