How do you tell your best friend that you like him?

Question

I have this best friend that i have knowen for almost 10 years, and i like him.

Answer 1

Say: I like you more than a friend. And then kiss him and make sweet love to him.

Answer 2

Don’t make a big production of it. Since you already have a solid foundation of friendship, there is no need to re-invent the wheel. Introduce your new feelings for your friend casually. It shouldn’t be too much of a shock if you are already close. Just slip it in and get a reaction. If you turn it into a crucial thing, your friend may feel pressured, at that rarely leads to hugs and puppy dogs.

((Also, hope that your friend dosn't read your yahoo answers, this would be a poor way for him to find out ;))

Answer 3

Well are you worried that he might not like you in return... BEcause I am pretty sure if he has been around that long, you or him have made it clear that there will be no realtionship between you both. Otherwise, he probbally dropping hints like a german bomber and you are just not getting it. Sit him down and tell him, plain and simple, which is usually the hardest way. the easiest way is to have a friend of his tell him that he knows of a girl that wants him bad, and that she wants to meet him at this place and this time and that she is smoking hot. When he shows up and sees you there, he will understand.

Answer 4

Tell him how you feel. Just hint it to him once and a while then when you feel the time is right just tell him, be honest. The worst thing that could happen would be for him to just like you as a friend and for it to be awkward between you guys. But it will soon get normal (I am not saying he doesn't like you)!!! :) -Ash

Answer 5

i have the same thing/well use to. me and my next door neighbor grew up together and were super close..i mean weve known eachother since we were like 6 yrs old. and i started getting feelings for him during my freshman yr of highschool..and it turned out that he felt the same way...and i guess did for along time...i never got the chance to see what would happen because i ended up being with one of my other friends of like not even a yr...but you would be surprised he may have the same feelings as you do....let other friends that you two share know about what it is your feeling..maybe they have some info that hes told them....and when your around him just give him clues...flirtin and dropping little hints to him about your emotions...let the news out..and see what happens

Answer 6

My friend was in the same situation. I told her to tell him straight up just by talking to him. I told her to go up to him, let him know, and how you don't want the friendship to end. Then give him some time to think. She ignored my info, got drunk and spilled her guts over the phone. He didn't take her serious from then on, since she was all drunk...but anyway, be honest..

Answer 7

"You and I have been knowing eachother for a while, haven't we?

I'd like to confide something to you.

I like you, more than just a friend."

That's really it. He may or may not feel the same way. That's just the way it is. But you'll feel much better by just being honest.

It feels much worse to always wonder "What if I only ______?" So, don't leave yourself open to those "What if I only ______?"

Find out!

Answer 8

I'm dealing with the same thing. My best advice (or that which I myself would follow) is just to spit it out. Tell him how you feel. Many of the best relationships were formed from friendships.

Answer 9

hello, my name jboogies. if you are really serious about this preson then listen to your heart . sometime our minds doesn't agree with what we feel inside all the time. you should do whats right then going through life not knowing if he felt the same about you something to ask yourself. 10yrs is a very long time in knowing someson dont u think so. what i m trying to say is if you dont never know then you want smile. so its now or never.

Answer 10

ive got a secret to tell you. ive been keeping it in me becuase i didnt want to ruin a good thing. but i cant go on with this secret. i like you more than a freind. do you feel the same?

Answer 11

To avoid embarrassment, tell him in an indirect manner...Say it as a joke...that you like him more than of being bestfriends...then assess and be sensitive enough to understand his reactions.