My friend is only 14 and has done it w/4 diff. guys. in 1 week! should I be ok w/that or stop hang. out w/her?

Question

WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?! stop hanging out with her or still be her friend and be known as the kind of person she is???

I have tried talking about it with her, but she loves the attention and won't give it up!! She knows that she can get STDs but she dont care!! If I tell her I can't be her friend....she will start rumors about me!! Am I stuck in this or what??

Answer 1

Okay first of all your friend is a whore. Not to be mean, but that is pretty much the definition of one. Does she know what she is doing? Does she realize it is wrong? Have you tried talking to her yet she refuses to stop? If the answer is yes to any of these questions, you may want to consider dropping her as a friend. She probably is not the best example for you, and that could mean a lot of trouble when you get older.

Answer 2

If you can, please try to persuade her to give up this behavior. She is fast heading into extremely dangerous territory. Besides pregnancy there are diseases like AIDS she could catch which would end her life all together. On top of that it sets her up for attracting people who won't hesitate to rape her thinking she likes it that way anyway.
Also, ask her if any of her friends or family have molested her. Promiscuity is often a thing molested girls do. If this is the case, maybe you could persuade her to turn him into the Police. You could also suggest counseling of some kind, say with a minister. This may help her to feel like she has some power over her life and will help curb the sleeping around.
However, if she refuses to get help and you feel she is dragging you down then you need to protect yourself. Don't let association with her make people think you are doing the same things. That could place YOU in a dangerous circumstance.

Answer 3

If I were in your position. I would stop hanging out with her. I would talk to her about your concerns as well. Separate yourself from her gradually. Just know, that often when you hang out with people who have questionable morals, you might find that behavior acceptable and do it yourself. It is so sad that she has such low self esteem & she would just give her body to so many boys. There are so many STD's out there not to mention getting pregnant & ruining her life!

Answer 4

If she is doing that, people are going to assume that you are too. Tell your friend that she is ruining her life. Once she gets that reputation, it is going to follow her and haunt her for a long time. Not to mention that she should be worried about getting pregnant and std's. The best thing you can do for her is to tell her to stop or you are going to her parents. She needs to stop this behavior, she is to young.

Answer 5

maybe she's going through a hard time. at 14, already being that promiscuous is rare-- i think she may have something going on in her life and is resorting to sex as a way to rebel or escape. try being there for her and asking if she needs to talk. as long as you don't emulate what she's doing, it's safe to stay around. she may need you.

Answer 6

DANG GIRL!!! Thats ALOT! I'd say ppl know how she is and if u hang w/her ppl will asume ur the same way and u dont wana be known as a whore! I say get away as fast as u can..

Answer 7

You should becareful if you hang with her you might get her reputation.I would even tell your parents she is playing with fire AIDS STDs and pregnancy

Answer 8

Try to talk to her before you completely write her off!

Answer 9

report to police! is under-age and shall be punished!

Answer 10

what do you think???
its ok for you to remain friend, what i can say is,
nothing wrong with that..