My love is gone. She left a letter saying she was hurt and wounded and that she'd most likely never see or talk to me ever again. I don't know what's wrong, She didn't explain it. I'm crying at the moment in disbelif and i'm reading the letter over and over afraid I may have missed something. She we weren't dating, i don't think we ever planned on it or even talked about it cuz we're not /that/ way (no offense to ppl who are, i support you). But we were really close and cared 4 each other. my heart aches so bad...I feel i've done something wrong, is it my fault? I have no idea...she didn't explain. It's killing me inside and eating away at my heart. I've been hurt so much...I don't think I can stand another heart break. What can or should i do?
2006-07-19 16:43:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u should try to find her n see whats wrong dont just sit and wait around n then ull find her if u have her or her familys number n call them n tell her u need to talk
2006-07-19 16:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has told you she has been hurt and wounded. Just like you have now. What is that about? I know you say you don't know what happened but to know what caused her pain would be your answer.
Could there have been anyone that told her they saw you out with someone else? Can you think of anyone that would like to break you up.?
While everyone goes through what you are at some point in there life, it is always very painful. Time will help but for her to not tell you why she left is a real puzzle.
You know her. Can you ever see her standing in front of you and telling you this. Could this have only been the easy way out?
Most all of us have been where you are and we survived it.
Give it time and as hard as it is to believe right now you will be fine.
2006-07-20 00:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for the lost but you got to pull yourself together, If there is anyway you could call/contact then do so. If you know that you did nothing then leave it alone. Some people Play games with our hearts/minds. Again If you know for sure you did nothing to cause the break-up then let it go, They will call just take a HOT Bath relax chill out. It will be OK, You must pull your self together, This type of thing goes on everyday. IT WILL BE OK
2006-07-19 23:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by sweettoni37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the fact that she is gone...........If she didn't explain why she was leaving, maybe it was for another reason (she met someone else, or she didn't feel that she could fulfill your needs, etc.....) How could it be your fault if you don't even know what happened to make her leave??????? Take care, honey...........
2006-07-19 23:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear!
I know that feeling and although I know it sucks, time is the cure for it, and as long as you are satisfy with what you did for your relationship you can have peace of mind.
Good luck and be strong!
2006-07-19 23:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by gaijin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋