Me and my b/f have had a great relationship but we got into a lil fight b/c i guess i did not call him well he was going through a hard time and he wanted me to help him through it and well i did nto call him but anyways after we got everything back to were it was suppose to be i feel like now we are getting farther apart..i feel that he keeps pushing me away and i dont no what am i suppose to do is it normal for guys to do this or is my babe just the odd ball..someone plz help me i ahve no clue what to do!!
2006-07-19 15:51:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok yeah i no i messed up and yeah i told him that and he said he forgives me but i still feel like he is pushing me away and i wanna no how to get him to push my way not the other way
2006-07-19 16:01:51 · update #1
I think it is very difficult to be with a person who is so difficult... give him time to think it over, to forgive you..... be nice and patient - and most important: don't despair!
If he truly loves you, he will get over it, forgive you, and come back to you. Say "I am sorry", for once, and once it should be enough - if you mean it from your heart, he will hear it and forgive that mistake and everything will go on nicely as you had it before.
Next time pay more attention and try to be there with him when he needs you - we all need support, especially when we say "we have a relationship".....
2006-07-20 22:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he isn't an odd ball. He still is holding a grudge about you not calling him. He needs to learn to forgive such small things or your relationship doesn't have a chance. His pushing you away is a clear sign that he is still angry. Could be some other things in that mix also. You have to learn to be honest with each other and not sweat the small stuff.
Good luck!
2006-07-19 15:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this but yall are growing apart because he is still angry with u not being there for him when he needed u most, he feels like he cant count on u for anything and he's trying to sort all his feelings out in his mind u guys should start being more honest with eachother
2006-07-19 16:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by cherrybc032000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have been there for him , when he needed you you weren't there that mit be why you feel the space going between you two cus he knows he can't count on you
2006-07-19 16:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋