see me and my soon to be wife were talking and she wants to know if it hurts to lose your virgenty so ladys can you tell me and her how it feels
2006-07-19 15:45:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It hurts the first 2 times, but that really depends on the woman. Not everyone feels pain the first time. Also some women will bleed a little or a lot. By the third time, it doesn't hurt anymore. Good luck and congrats on your wedding!
2006-07-19 15:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, really it depends on quite a few different factors. There's a tissue that causes the pain when its broken, if your wife uses tampons or has used a sex toy, she'll be just fine, its a great feeling and you'll never forget it. You dont want to go hard or use deep penetration the first time because that could be painful, ease your way into that. thats great that she's stayed a virgin until marriage! congratulations, honey you're a better woman than I am!!! have fun and congratulations on your marriage! hope i helped! good luck and god bless!!!
-jasmine
2006-07-19 15:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different. It can be painful (not real painful) or it can be uncomfortable. The best thing is to just ease...into..it. Once you get into and get each other all hot and bothered you really don't notice any discomfort that much. Especially, if you truly love each other! Have fun!
2006-07-19 15:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a gentleman ... you'll take things slowly and use some KY jelly to maximize her comfort. It may or may not hurt depending on the "fit" ...
Make her feel great before the actual penetration and she will get through it better.
And if at first you don't succeed ... try, try again - good luck
2006-07-19 15:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by BigBadBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does hurt the first time but it begins to feel good after the first time
2006-07-19 15:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by pebbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little but only the first and second time.
2006-07-19 15:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first couple of times it hurts, but after that it's all good
2006-07-19 15:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by alilswt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use a whole lot of lube and be extra gentle and sensitive to her
then
2006-07-19 19:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by GEN Gamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its painful and very uncomfortable. but its so beautiful when its with the one you love.
2006-07-19 15:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by BrownSuga26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't think it hurt that much... more akward than anything...
2006-07-19 15:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by Dana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋