..as in either you (if you're a lady) are having multiple orgasms one after another, or you (if you're a man) are giving your lady multiple orgasms....How often does this happen?
Lately I seem to be getting aggitated if I don't c.u.m. at least three times when I'm having sex.. So I'd like to find out if multi orgasms are the rule, or the expection to the rule. Please be honest..
2006-07-19 15:28:20 · 10 answers · asked by Sharlala 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I read somewhere that a guy shouldn't ask a girl if she did or not. So I just don't ask. I have a pretty good idea though. She usually gets two to my one. The only time she doesn't is not because of lack of effort on my part that is for sure. Maybe something is distracting her. Maybe she's just trying to do her wifely duty. Who knows? If she isn't into it, it is her loss in the end, not mine.
All I know is I want her to have as many big "O"s as she can stand everytime we have sex.
2006-07-20 05:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by waterfowlwidowmaker 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I once heard someone say that you can't expect to have an orgasm everytime you have sex. If you do then you will be let down everytime. I say don't have sex for like a week or two and then go for it. I don't have an orgasm everytime. You could also be thinking about it during sex or concentrating on too much during sex. It happens to me when I get too stressed out. Just go with the flow and don't expect or concentrate on having one. It will help, trust me. I was at a point one time in my life when I couldn't have any orgasms at all. (this was after I had been having sex and having orgasms) It was very frustrating. Also, do you use toys that vib? I did and thats what was causing me not have any orgasms.
2006-07-19 15:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by angelblueyes200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you're actually telling yourself that 3 times is optimum. It shouldn't matter if it's 1 or 10. Of course, you want the most but not if it's going to start causing conflict. Let things happen naturally. My girl can have multiple orgasms and sometimes I *** a few times during sex but we don't force ourselves because then it becomes a job and you don't want to do that.
2006-07-19 15:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the women I have been with *** multiple times. I think it's more about the guy being a "giver" more than an issue with you. Too many of us either get used to things or just don't really care about anything but our own pleasure. All you need is to find those os us who really enjoying giving pleasure, and you should be fine.
There is absotively nothing wrong with getting the three or four climaxes you need!!!
2006-07-19 15:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by hmmm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain, I get agrivated too. but it all depends on the chemsitry with your partner, and the length he can last. I can multiple orgasms when I have sex for atleast 45 minutes to over an hour. But anything less, and its one, maybe two if its really intense.
2006-07-19 15:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by suheilly13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time my ex had multiple orgasm when she had a man whose penis was over 10 ins. long. She lost count about the number of times.
2006-07-19 23:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer pretend orgasms and that i under no circumstances will. If I make sounds its because he's actual doing some thing top. i am going to under no circumstances pretend it truly is larger than it actual is and that i will not make him experience like hes doing a good interest even as he's not. i'm no longer a rude individual yet i believe contained in the reality both out and in of mattress. My guy is both good or he's not and both way he will understand. with somewhat of success i ought to assist in making the challenge better to assist him artwork it better with me and if no longer we are no longer meant to be. i'm luckily engaged and that i delight in each and every 2d of love me make together.
2016-12-01 23:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always have one. But more than one only happens every few months. Not often!
2006-07-19 15:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by churppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your an exception to the rule dont be GREEDY consider yourself lucky
2006-07-19 15:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by cat0475@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've never had a orgasm
2006-07-19 15:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋