2006-07-19 15:00:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Unfortunately falling in love is like a moving train...you cannot stop it right away. If you are really serious about your efforts, then you must back away entirely, and let the emotion subside on its on. Divert this energy by getting involved in other worthwhile projects. Try and do something each day to help occupy your mind. It will be difficult but you must work on it.
Don't dwell on thoughts of him...this will make it harder. Continue to resist and move on with your life.
With your effort, eventually it will pass.
2006-07-19 15:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If being afraid to fall in love with someone is being dishonest, like Daniel A said ,then I guess I am dishonest with myself. Yes I am afraid to fall in love. I don't want to get hurt or anyone else in the process.
2006-07-19 18:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my heart surgically removed and replaced with a smaller Harley engine...seems to do the trick.
No...seriously...you do have control of your emotions. You have self control as well. If you use your self control to steer you away from situations that may place you within close proximity to that other person that will allow your emotions to strengthen to such that they won't easily fall for that other person. Just remember...love ain't that big-a-deal until you're in your twenties so enjoy life rather than having your heart broken time and time again right now. There's no rush. So YOU don't rush it.
2006-07-19 15:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by Scadle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop it. It's a feeling. If you don't want to fall in love with this person then you must walk away from them and not be in their lives until you can get over it.
2006-07-19 15:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing you can do to stop it. If its someone you know will lead you into trouble stay away from them but ultiamtly you cant do anythign but fall in love and if its not right fall out of love.
2006-07-19 15:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is my problem, cause when ever I get really close with a guy, usually around the same time of length too, I push away. I think that when I am really in love with someone that it will fix itself
2006-07-19 15:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, falling in love is not a preventable condition. My question to you is why are you afraid of of this emotion?
2006-07-19 15:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being afraid to fall i love for some one, means fear and insecurity, the feeling of love will dominate though, and if as it does you if are not honest, the fear will create drama and wreckage, if you are in love you are guided by your most powerful emotion which will win.
Stop questioning, take a chance , try to be objective
2006-07-19 15:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by daniel a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think falling in love is a choice. I fell in love with my wife after only knowing her for couple of weeks, we married after 6 months. We weren't looking for love, love was looking for us....truely a blessing!
2006-07-19 15:04:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just really stopped seeing her i was literly beyond in love with this girl i was ready to never see any one else not even see what else is out there and im 15 this was my first i would have jumped off a clif for her i would give my life befor hers and one day her parents tell her we moving i think ok a local move turn out she moved from bk ny to la ca i was ready to kill my self but i got over it there is still a place in my heart for her
2006-07-19 15:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by ice13water 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋