I'm 14 years old and I'm pregrant.I didn't think we needed to use a condom.I just listened to that song by that song by Lyfe an hour ago.That song:S.E.X. I don't know what to do.I'm regretting that I ever did it and its all my faught.The baby daddy is 14 also.he told me that he will be down with me for anything.I love him and he loves me.Should I tell my mom?Am I too young for love?Help me out!!!!!!!!PLEASE
2006-07-19 14:54:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ok i have a question for you...
WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU DOIN HAVING SEX AT 14 YEARS OLD???
and this isnt comming from a mother whos youngest child is 43 either!
im 13 and could NEVER dream od sleeping with someone his comming year!
ok heres the advice...
~~~tell you mom, even if you're not totally positive your pregnant...she should have known you were havikng sex anyway and told you to use condoms but thats beside the point
~~~decide if you love ur boi...if you do, stay together, but dont get married just yet, it might to 2 early and just b a crush.
~~~use condoms...what if your boi also has a STD...then what, you could b pregnant and sick and make your babii sick 2, and what did IT do to diserve this
~~~DONT GET RIDE OF THE BABY...but that is just my belief....but also, if you dont want it, put it up for adoption, if you choose to keep it, dont treat it as if it ruined your life...thatll help nothin
~~~AND FINALLY, MAKE SURE YOUR DAD DOESNT KILL THE BOI...CAUSE I NOE MINE WOULD!!!!!
hope that helps and good luck!
2006-07-19 15:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to take this on by yourself and I wouldn't suggest having the baby because one you can't take care of it and two the baby's daddy will not be able to pay child support. So you have two options a) talk to your mom/(dad) or b) talk to some other adult, such as a teacher or coach. You should talk to your mom if possible, but really if you are scared of what she will say/do you might be able to get around her and go to a doctor because I don't think that they will tell your mom if you tell them not to. You can't take this on alone so make up your mind and ASAP
2006-07-19 15:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by pianomangsl77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should tell your parents!
the more important thing (than rather your too young 2 be in love) is what are you gonna do with the baby.
2006-07-19 15:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to talk to your mom right now. She can help you. Yes she will be disappointed in your lack of restraint, but if she is a normal mom that disappointment will last oh about 20 minutes and she'll have you to a doctor. YOu need medical attention and you need to get it now. Waiting until you show is only putting off the inevitable. Tell her now!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-19 14:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUNNY HUNNY calm down hun!
Its ok, If you want to you can tell your mom but shes probably gonna kill you! ( not really but she gonna Be mad as heck).
YES! hun 14 years old is a bit young for you to be having sex!
You really should've used that condom! ( Its ok, though because its already donee with!)
Maybe your mom will excpet the baby, or maybe she'll make you have an abortion!
She'll be mafd!
but you need to tell her if she does blow, you need to tell her to calm down because theres no use for yelling, because its alreday done! and theres nothing you can change about it! because your yelling your acting like a child! mom calm down!
I know it hurts and you dont like it and stuff, but this is not the way to handle it!
Thats my dear what you have to say!
Just becarful and dont let it happen agin.
I really hope you can go through this because! for your age and mine, its a really bad bad Ideah to do sex and have a baby!
Hun dont let it happen again!
I hope you best wishes!
Danielle
2006-07-19 15:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to talk to your parents ASAP. And yes u are to young for love. Wishing u the best.
2006-07-19 15:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by jerryhmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah your to young. and since you answered my dancing question and you said you could beat me dancing don't think so anymore. Sorry that was really insensitive. But you have ruined your life. You should tell your mom
2006-07-19 16:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by funkyfresh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not to young for love yes u should tell ur mom and first of all u should have thought of the consiquences
2006-07-19 14:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st tell your mom! she will be the one you need the most. 2nd there are options out there, talk to your mother about those. 3rd don't count on him being there. 4th you should be happy all you got from unprotected sex was pregnant!
2006-07-19 14:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre not 2 young 4 love but 2 young 4 dat! youre just making it up anyway so it doesnt really matter.........
2006-07-19 15:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋