2006-07-19 14:41:59 · 35 answers · asked by KATRINA N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sorry to hear it. This will be a tough time, but it's a chance for you to do a little self-discovery. Get in some girl bonding time.
When you're ready, go ahead and date, not feeling like you have to attach yourself to any one guy. Instead, just enjoy yourself for a while.
The moving back in thing might be difficult. Can you room with any girlfriends? Your independence is important through this period. Moving home may get in the way.
Good luck!
2006-07-19 14:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by aross07 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, I'm thinking what you are thinking but you don't want to think it. So I'll just say it--and we'll be done with it and we can talk about it once I say it.
He wants to break up with you. Ok, it's Ok, really. We had to spit it out. Well that's what you're thinking, right? However and I do mean HOWEVER, MAYBE he really does just need some space. There's lots of variables here that could go either way. Age, level of committment shown to date vs. age, other intangibles like job security, some skank that's been hitting on him giving him the eye, maybe he's afraid of being tied down...
Yeah, give him the space "he needs". In the meantime, you take your CUTIE PIE SELF and ROCK IT without him. You don't need no man, you are a strong proud woman...You and your momma just GO ON with your bad selves.
And the next time he calls, I wouldn't answer. And don't call him back until 27 hours later. And make your mom tell him that you're, um, busy, and, um, you'll um, call him back. Yep, "call him back"...27 HOURS LATER that's the rule
GOOD LUCK! You GO GIRL!
2006-07-19 14:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he needs space to see were you guys stand, give him his space, but don't put your life on hold waiting for him to figure out where he wants the relationship. Move on in life, enjoy being single for now, find out who you are without him. Explore life, ask yourself questions like who am I? What makes me happy? Am I where I want to be in life? Often times we become wrapped up in other people's lives, space to breathe is alright. Let him breathe, but don't hold your breath and let him have all the air. I hope you understand what I'm trying to say. Good luck!
2006-07-19 14:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely Darky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me that's just a polite way of saying...i dont want you anymore..but you can always be in denial and believe that he really needs his space..if you think about..why didnt he think of that before you guys moved in together and all of a sudden he needs his space...
2006-07-19 14:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by c-rayz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he is afraid of commiting or he just needs some space. give him space and wait for a couple of weeks, he will remember that he can't live without you and return to you
2006-07-19 14:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by sabre6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If it's been two years and he needs space, he's just not that into you. Sorry.
2006-07-19 14:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by yLime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else he's not into you anymore. You should know when guys say they need space they have found someone else or they just don't like you anymore. Sorry best of luck to you :)
2006-07-19 14:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my b/f of 3yrs just did the exact same thing 5weeks ago. take into consideration his age for one, but also that opposites, as they do attract are as combine able as vinegar and oil sometimes. time is miserable for me right now, but it's all i think i have. although, advice has been from others to basically find new or old friends, and pretend or not that every day is the best day of your life. he hopefully will see what he is missing.
2006-07-19 15:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds iffy to me.. But you could give him some space but if he tries to push you completely away then hes probably looking for a relationship else where.
2006-07-19 14:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by ladytibbetts 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I am so sorry for what you are going through. Maybe mom and you can bond a bit. Give him his space.
2006-07-19 14:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by themisslita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋