it's very apparent he likes me,...but he doesn't have many friends,...he so hates my best friend who is also my bf. he always finds the bad in my bf and points it out to me and says he just doesn't want to see me get hurt. I've always been there for this guy and now he wants to hang out with me during the summer but i don't want to b/c of the situation. I don't know what to tell him or n e thing. Help plzz
2006-07-19 14:38:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What you need to do is think about what your friend is saying about your boyfriend/best friend... is it true? Can you see some of it being true? Do you want to keep your friend as a friend? If you do, you need to explain to him exactly how you are feeling... maybe say you appreciate him looking out for you and tell him you want to keep him as a friend... but that you love your boyfriend. Just be as truthful as possible without hurting him too badly.
2006-07-19 14:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its tough. I had a situation like this throughout highschool and a couple yrs . afterward. I hang out with them both and ended up going out with them both in the end. I ended up knowing they were two good people who really liked me but boys do get jealous of eachother when there is a mutual friend/girlfriend in the middle. I don't think I really would have changed a thing though.
2006-07-19 21:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your bf should join a gym together, that way whenever your friend wants to hang out, just say your going to the gym lol. It worked for me. Ooh, and dont answer the phone when he calls.
2006-07-19 21:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by LuVBrOkEn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend and he really is your best friend, then this other person is really just a friend so you need to tell him to either chill out and be just your friend, or buzz off. If you continue to let him interfere and bad mouth your boyfriend, then sooner or later your relationship with your boyfriend is going to go bad.
2006-07-19 21:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hates your Best Friend do not like him
2006-07-19 21:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by lildaboh97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk w/ him, telling him that u should only b friends and hope he'll understand. if he doesn't, u know that he wuz not a very valuable friend and u don't need him.
2006-07-19 22:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hates your bf then say i can't be your friend no more
2006-07-19 21:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by lilke-ke h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him u just like him as a friend and tht he needs to accept tht and maybe his time will come later
2006-07-19 21:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you more then ur BF :) ..so qui with ur bf and be with ihm :)
2006-07-19 21:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋