im a very nice guy, i've been around the world once and planing more trips. but everywhere i go if i talk to a woman the guy with the trouble sum look gets her. and im not going to change be cause of a female i dont have, so why do we finish last
2006-07-19 14:34:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
I know, I'm sick of it myself. The bad lads that I've been workmates with get most of the women, especially on a night out. I usually (not always) end up on my own or with a small group of people who already have girlfriends/boyfriends. It happens regularly. I'm told I'm too nice for my own good by my friends.
I I'm not gonna change from being a gentleman either, It wouldn't be me.
2006-07-19 22:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by genghis41f 6 · 6⤊ 5⤋
Maybe becuz your 2 nice, I mean u have 2 be a lil rough on the side, don't be 2 2 nice u know women like a man that can fight for her take up for her u no, i'm not saying change everything about your self, just change a lil ok. thats if u want anyway u go i will pray 4 u ok
2006-07-19 15:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why this happens either. I guess i'm imune to bad boys. I tend to like nerdy shy boys who are smart and funny. Other girls overlook then in order find a bad boy who looks like he can be changed and will impress other girls. I don't know if this is a new thing or an age old thing. But it could be that modern women want the soap opera story of a bad boy turned good. In the old days women wanted the storybook prince charming. I might be wrong. ask grandma. LOL
2006-07-19 14:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by the_eliza_red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's not about being nice - it's about being more challenging. Think of it this way. Do men like women who are too easy? No, they like the thrill of the chase. Men are naturally competitve and instinctually, women want a man who she is going to feel secure with, financially and physically. A guy TOO nice and not challenging enough doesn't cut if for some women, who, like men, want a challenge.
Either way, don't change your personality, just hold off a bit more and be a bit more distant.
2006-07-19 14:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stick a nut on her make her pay for everything verbally abuse her parents push your luck to the point where your inches from being murdered pinch all her cash drink the kids dinner money have loads of hair brained money making schemes that never work leave a mess do fuckall apart from making her down and feel totally ugly fat and worthless and shel worship you sad but true
2006-07-19 16:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by silver scales 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but im a nice guy and i wonder the same time why we finsh last, i mean im a nerd at my school and i be nice to other people but i always get picked on, maybe its cause were to nice
2006-07-19 14:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls want badasses not a puss. heres a scenario your talking to a hot chick. the stud walks up and takes her. the reason for that is because she has an instinct that tells her hey i bet this guy could kick that weak guys ***. who do you think shes gunna choose the wimpy virgian who lives with mom or the rich tuff dude who can protect her. and you nice guys cant fight the tuff guy, well can!
2006-07-19 14:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
bad guys might win the 100 metre sprint, but nice guys win the 26 mile marathon everytime
2006-07-19 14:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by Dawny 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, it's not nice people who finish last-it's weak people.
Plenty of successful people around who as far as one can tell are fairly 'nice' people. Nasty people often lack self respect as much as respect for others and as a result fail as much as 'nice' people who lack confidence in themselves.
2006-07-19 14:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by richy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't met the right girl yet. There's someone for everyone you'll find her and she'll like you just the way you are.
2006-07-19 15:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by honey27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋