how long do orgasm's lst for you ladies only.?

Question

Hi well I believe I am having an orgasm it feels great but only for like 8 seconds or shorter. is this an orgasm? I know its hard for ppl to explain but its kind of pointless for me to have sex with hubby if i cant orgasm rite?
is there anyway you could explain what it feels like to orgasm?
when i feel this i feel warm and like tighten every muscle in my body all at once, and it feels great only for about 8 seconds. and only in 1 certain position

its making sex not fun and boring what do i do? ive tried mastubating vibrators clit stimulators anything else youd recommend? oh and oral doesnt work either?? is there something wrong with me?

serious answers only please no mean people

Answer 1

It sounds like you're probably orgasming. 8 seconds sounds pretty normal - too bad orgasms can't last longer! I would describe mine as a build-up of being turned on, then the extremely pleasurable ache that grows until finally, in a burst of pleasure, the pressure is released. I don't think mine are much longer than 8 seconds - maybe 12 if I'm lucky.

Answer 2

It could bethat your husband is not working his game right. some guys have trouble trying to have women orgasm cause it takes lots of time and they need to focus very well on it. I think what you experienced was an orgasm, usually an orgasm feels like you are at the very high peak of a rollercoaster and when you're about to release you are going down down down on the rollercoaster having that exaggerated and full of exstacy feeling.

Answer 3

My spouse many times takes 5-10 minutes for the 1st, then 3-5 minutes later for the 2d and third . If she is drained there is many times in basic terms one . a pair of cases she had 5 .

Answer 4

there is nothing wrong with you. You should relax, not worry about it. it will get better and better if you don't put pressure on yourself.