okay so my friends having this sleepover/ cookout party and its like a two day party thing and usually i cant do these types of thing cause i get too tired or even sick after two days. and she knows that. so on the invitation she only invited my to the cookout part. i kind of feel left out. but should i? i just feel so confused.
2006-07-19 14:13:15 · 11 answers · asked by Audrey K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u should feel left out, since she is ur friend, but it's sorta okay since she knows that u get sick from those things. so u should talk to her about it if u want to get invited anyways (in the future of course)
2006-07-19 14:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lily 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Well, sweetie don't feel bad for too long because they did invite u and u did say u can't do this kind of thing because u get tired after two days. Think hard about this (ok) they did invite u, u get tired after two days, so ur not left out, they're doing what u can do because as ur friend they didn't want to have u there and u ended u getting too pooped to enjoy urself. I'm sure they would to be at both, but u can only handle one.
Y don't u ask them to video tape it so that way u can enjoy the other good time, but make sure u have a goodtime at the one ur invited too
Don't feel lefted out or confused sweetie
Enjoy urself =-)
2006-07-19 21:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel left out, because you just said that you couldn't do these types of parties. Try the sleepover party first and see if you can stay for the cookout party the next day. Good luck!
2006-07-19 21:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by gwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she is trying to do the correct thing and make you feel comfortable while inviting you to participate in the festivities,
2006-07-19 21:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR FRIEND HASN"T LEFT YOU OUT OR SHE WOULDN"T OF SENT YOU AN INVITE AT ALL, SHE KNOWS AFTER 2 DAYS UR SICK BUT SHE MUST WANT YOU TO COME OR SHE WOULD NOT HAVE ASKED YOU ? SO GET GOING & ENJOY YOURSELF,
2006-07-19 21:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm....maybe she knows this...that you get tired and sick after 2 days....maybe at the cook out if you feel like staying you should say wow...blaaa---blaaa----this is a great party...i think i'll stay and continue with the party with you guys...if that's alright with ya!
2006-07-19 21:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by staceyhat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe she didn't invite you because she knows how sick you get and didn't want to make you feel bad. :)
2006-07-19 21:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by Leila P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't ur the one who said u get tired, i think ur friend is just trying 2 help u out!!
2006-07-19 21:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by *islandchick* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go. I think she is just trying to not hurt you feelings, she didn't want you to feel left out.
2006-07-19 21:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't, but it's okay, a lot of ppl feel like that. but it's nice that she knows how u r.
2006-07-19 22:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋