I received a call from my friend to come and get her (she was spending night at home with her husband), and she was whispering from her washroom (needless to say I could not understand her well). I rushed to her place at 11pm only to find out that she has to go asap to some guy's house, as he is waiting for her. She told me horrible things done to her by husband. Having in mind that both of 'em are my friends, I reluctantly refused. The things are not the same between us anymore, she is dissapointed in me, but never said nothing to that effect. How far unconditional friendship goes? That was hitting rock-bottom for her, and I let her down.
2006-07-19 13:54:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, in this situation you may have been in a lose - lose situation given how things happened pretty quickly. I'm sure you wanted to really get down to the meat of it since both were your friends. Either way you made a decision that you felt right for you and it is too late to change what was done. If it was right or wrong will only be seen by time.
Presently She needs to get help if she hasn't already and you can make it up to her by apologizing and standing by what she needs to remedy her life. Your other friend, if all this is true, needs to get himself some help. Whatever "horrible" things he did to her should NEVER happen again!
Friends make mistakes sometimes too.
2006-07-19 14:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by ZIAGACITY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things always happen for a reason. I feel that you did the right thing because your so-called friend should not have put you in the middle of her betrayal of her husband. A true friend wouldn't have put you in that situation to begin with. Don't get down on yourself because you did the right thing by rejecting to take her to another guy's house.
2006-07-19 14:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. You were trying to help her cause what she was going to do was wrong. Tell her if she and her husband are having problems, cheating is not the way to solve it. If she gets mad, then she really doesnt deserve a friend like you.
2006-07-19 14:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 09:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there so what if you made a misteak or not you have to show her how much you care about her in your relationship if you been friends this long do let this little thing break your friend ship a part.
i hope i have helped you some good lucky wth ever thing.
2006-07-19 14:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by sheena w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are a pretty sucky friend. You are going to have to kiss some serious *** to gain her respect back. If its your friend and they are in a situation that they dont necessairly like and you are able to get them away from it, then you should do it. I mean its not like she was trying to get you to do something bad, she needed help, and you turned your back, shame on you. Just because she wanted to go to some guys house does not mean that she was going to **** him, she might have just wanted to stay there so that her husband wouldnt abuse her.
2006-07-19 13:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
na u didnt let her down, she let u down by trying to use u to go see another guy. the fact that she asked u to do this shows she has little respect for u and the friendship.
2006-07-19 13:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO SOUNDS TO ME SHE IS USING YOU AS A EXCUSE TO BE WITH ANOTHER GUY, BUT TELLING YOU HER HUSBAND IS HORRID TO HER, YOU DIDNT LET HER DOWN SHE WAS USING YOU, IF THATS WHAT SHE THINKS FORGET HER LET HER FIND ANOTHER MUG, FRIENDS LIKE THAT YOU DONT NEED,
2006-07-19 14:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to follow your gut instict. Soemthing was obviously wrong to you. If she is any kinda friend she will see your perspective and help correct whatever is wrong.
2006-07-19 13:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you didn't let her down, she let you down by getting you involved in her screwed up mess that she made!!!
2006-07-19 14:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋