Being different?

Question

I know everyone is different but sometimes I wonder if there's something wrong with me. I don't know if it's the way I look or how fast I do everything (literally) but i'm always getting the strangest looks as if i'm a freak or something. People keep their distance and not really say anything to me and when I look at them I feel as if they are judging me negatively, I also figure this is why i've never dated before. In the morning where I work he have what they call "huddle" (a group meeting) I know two others who don't go nor do I know the reason why but I just don't because I just feel as if I don't belong. Though they say we're all a team... my question is how do I deal with this exactly???

Answer 1

Sounds to me like you just have really low self esteem. You need to think of yourself as being just as important as they are. Im sure you really not different than them. Its just the way you percieve yourself. You need to love yourself and be happy with who you are. Then other people will start to see the change in you , and will treat you as if you are one of them. Don't hang back and feel like you dont belong. Thats the way they will treat you. When you treat yourself badly, other people will treat you badly. Just jump in their and and know that noone is any better than you are. Learn to love yourself!! Thats the most important thing. I know, because i used to be the same way. I would always hang back, and leave myself out of everything. Then i decided to make a change in my life. I have been so much happier since i've excepted myself for who i am, and realized that they are no better than me. I learned to love and respect myself, and you can do the same. Good Luck

Answer 2

Know the feeling let me give you some advice. You have to spend 8 hrs out of your day with these people. Who cares what they think. Do your thing and leave. Everyone in life isn't going to like you that's just a fact your gonna have to accept. Now let me ask you a question are you ready to give up who you are and be popular to people who really from what you described don't matter (in your life ) anyway. Yes it's gonna be uncomfortable you'll get thru it

Answer 3

if all you want is to be included into those meeting things, i think you should assert yourself a little more, not too much, but just share some of your ideas. if people still act weird toward you, just remember that it doesnt matter what they think, its what you think about yourself.