I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. Lately he has been more lovey than usual like snuggling and sending me sweet messages out of the blue. Does anyone know what is going on?
2006-07-19 12:51:57 · 27 answers · asked by K.P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yep, he likes you. Don't try to anal-ize it!
2006-07-19 12:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by kimmyisahotbabe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be a number of things. Yes, guilty of something is a possiblity, but not the only one by far. Perhaps he has just now realized exactly how much you mean to him. Maybe he feels that you are slipping away from him and wants to hang on. He could be getting ready to pop the big question. It is too hard to say one way or the other. Perhaps you two should talk. Or let it ride out and see where it leads.
2006-07-19 19:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by geni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what makes them tick hon, lol. Once in awhile my husband will be like that and I just savor the moment. I think that in relationships, we all tend to do that now and then. It could be from something he heard at work about how so and so was so good to his girlfriend and he felt bad that he wasn't doing better in that area, or it could be that some stress has been holding him back from being as loving as he wanted to be...or maybe he just woke up, lol. I would suggest that you just really enjoy it, and make sure he knows just how much you appreciate how great he has been lately. I think it really makes a difference! I hope the best for you . Good luck!
2006-07-19 20:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd probably be asking questions exactly like you're doing now because I always expect the floor to fall in. But besides that I would say to enjoy it and don't worry about it. He's probably understanding that he needs to be more appreciative toward you and loving. So no worries:) And as for understanding guys in general...well I don't even think scientists could do that in one lifetime:)
2006-07-19 19:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be anything, he may have been cheating and is feeling guilty and is attempting to cover up his mistakes by being more affectionate than normal.
or he may simply be finally realising that you are his true love and he is now willing and able to give you more affectin than he has in the past.
may be he is working up to asking you the big M question.
the only way to find out is to talk to him about why he is suddenly more affectionate than normal. he will tell you when asked if he loves you that is.
good luck and i hope it is you worrying over nothing.
2006-07-19 19:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might think you're cheating on him, or he's probably cheating on you and trying to overcompensate feeling bad about it.
Or it could be a diversion to throw you off.
But maybe he's gone through a major personal crisis and he feels he has to throw some Love at ya.
2006-07-19 19:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
G U I L T Y and he ain't got no ALIBI he's GUILTY......he's GUILTY
Prolly went and had a one night stand/fling with another woman and now feels bad about it so he's suckin' up.
If he did it once he'll do it again.....you best dump his sorry a$$ before he drags home an STD and gives it to you.
2006-07-19 19:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's getting ready to propose. Here's a good book to understand men - Men are from Mars,Women are from Venus.
2006-07-19 19:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could be so many things. I don't know all of your history with this guy.
Allow me to recomend some reading material to maybe help you a bit.
~I hope for the best for you.~
Try:
InsideAGuysMind.com
2006-07-19 19:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Saffron♥Daydream♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's going to propose. Maybe it has dawned on him how long 4 years is and how great you are to have put up with him for so long.
2006-07-19 19:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he feels u 2 should be closer or he's cheating but mostly when guys do that they just think the relationship should go farther and they feel the 2 of u should be closer.
2006-07-19 19:58:27 · answer #11 · answered by pocko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋