I want to be a new person this year for school! I am defanitly going to appeare proud and confedent but along with that, I dont know whether to be the friendly, loud [as in out there...not noisy! duh!], happy, totaly chilled, have mostly guy friends, be the school "come to me for advice", band rocker type, skater girl [<< like Ashley Simpson..sry if you have something against her but I like her style!] or the quiet but friendly, characterized, cute [for the guys...not like HOTT but cute [maybe hott] and chick...] girl!!!!!!!!! HHEELLPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [I know its kinda the wrong catagory but I need an answer NOW so that I can pick out the right clothes for that role for school and so I'm not left hanging! And this catagory is usually busy..HELP!]
2006-07-19 12:51:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
okay, l know you have probably heard the saying It is better to be hated for who you are than be loved for what you're not. Well, its true! You should be yourself and not try to impress other people. besides, anybody who wants you to change for them is not worth changing for. you shouldnt have to do that. Im not sure what you are trying to achiever, (popularity)? but i think you will find that once you are out of school, its not going to matter anymore. and once you look back on it, you will be glad that you didnt try to impress people and be completely fake. I got news for ya...guys will see right through it, and girls will too!
2006-07-19 13:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO:
loud - seem to desperate for attention
happy - nobody likes people who are happy ALL the time
all guy friends - other girls will think you're a whore
advice lady - just don't, come off too know-it-all
rocker type - ??? I wouldn't personally but if you're comfortable with it
skater girl - TOO EMO
characterized - looks like you focus too much on outside reinforcements for acceptance and are more actor than human. playing to the crowd sort of thing.
YES:
totally chilled - may come off as a slacker but people like people who aren't so serious about everything
cute - very unassuming but approachable
quite but friendly - (ME) mind yourself but can still mingle with all the other cliques in school (I would recommend this one)
2006-07-19 12:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by YOU WILL BOW TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, people respond to that better. And it's A LOT better than trying to be someone else, then everyone will think you're weird for being something you're not. You're inner self will come out eventually.
2006-07-19 13:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by butrfly1215 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 02:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that everyone is saying be yourself and stuff and I totally agree with that but thats not what your asking ... If you really really really want to change the way you are like turn over a new leaf try being nice, friendly, and caring.its pretty much a proven fact that people like overall nice people... try it =]
2006-07-19 13:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Gabby P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a novel idea, why not just be yourself. When people find out you are trying to be something that you're not, you will lose respect and friends.
2006-07-19 12:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself...not what is popular, and maybe being yourself is popular. dont change cause you want to be "in" with society. if you put an act on at school and people do things with you when yer not in school, they will see right through you!!! so...be yourself 24-7!
2006-07-19 12:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by bill nye the science guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about being yourself. if you go to school trying to be someone that you're not, everyone will see right through it. try being yourself, it's a lot less stressful and doesn't require a new wardrobe.
2006-07-19 12:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should be yourself and just act natural, if its a guy that you are trying to impress then im sure that he would prefer that you be yourself than someone your not. wouldn't you prefer people to like you for who you are?
2006-07-19 12:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and be proud however you feel comfortable - whichever that may be.
2006-07-19 12:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by Sea -N-Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋