I think other girls are *cute* and all but I'm not interested in sex with them or anything... That's too weird for me. I like guys more sexualy I guess, but personaly I like short hair on a guy or girl... I guesss you might say I prefer the "butch" look ? And I mean the whole butch look is to atract girls... so wouldn't it be natural to be atracted ? : ) Would I still be concidered a lesbian, or Bi-sexual? ...
2006-07-19 12:50:59 · 45 answers · asked by Wolf_Girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No I don't think you are lesbian or bi sexual. You just have an appreciation for female beauty. I'm the same way, I am female who finds other women attractive but would never cross the line because the thought of sex with these women makes me sick. I love men. Why or where is it written that you can't love someone of the same gender without having sex? I have two great friends that I love deeply. Soulmates if you will. But i never could even imagine myself wanting to kiss them. I think alot of women feel as you do. You just have the guts to make your feelings public. Where others would deny such feelings to their dying day....You're normal.....relax.....
2006-07-19 13:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mare 3 · 6⤊ 4⤋
I don't think so. You have mixed messages in your comments that could be interpreted a few ways. I can't understand the butch look, I see it all the time and I don't find it attractive or sexy. I see it as frightening in a way. Same as guy that are too pretty, usually they are gay, but not always. I don't think you're a lesbian yet, but if you should become one, be a good one. It sounds like you know what you want, so whatever it is, go for it! There is nothing to be ashamed of, as long as you maintain an acceptable level of dignity and integrity. If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything.
2006-07-19 12:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The definition of lesbian is that a girl/woman is attracted sexually to girl/woman and is NOT attracted sexually to boys/men. Its perfectly normal to think some girls are cute just as we think female movie stars are beautiful but doesn't make us lesbian. Liking short hair is a hair style preference. The reason Butch women have short-men hairstyles is because they have a over abundance(too many) male hormones(we all have both) and think they are boy/man in their minds although they have a girl/woman body. Relax ,you are not lesbian or bisexual for bi-means 2(both) means you'd be SEXUALLY attracted to boys AND girls. Be happy.
2006-07-19 12:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you a lesbian if you have thoughts of girls , thinking they are cute and all. You do not have to be considered a lesbian if you have thoughts about girls. Well that is one thing that you like the sexual side of being with guys. Well you can have your preferences about the way you like to have guys and girls hair. It could well mean that you maybe attracted to the same sex. It doesn't mean you are a lesbian. It may mean that that you will be considered to be bisexual. More bisexual then lesbian in my thinking.
2006-07-19 13:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by Lorrs S D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curious. However, since at this time you're only attracted to guys sexually, this may change in the future, if you get too obsessed with cute girls, and might want to experience something with them. Do be careful if this is not what you want. It's cool if you like one girl, the she looks, etc, just don't make it a 24/7 thing.
2006-07-19 12:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society doesn't really have a stigma against girls being intimate or attracted to each other as much as they do with guys. I wouldn't consider you a lesbian or bi, just because you find them attractive (especially since you aren't interested or curious about sex with them). I don't think many others would either.
2006-07-19 12:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by singinintherain55 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are very confused.. someone's hair length has nothing to do with a person's sexual preference or orientation. you better check again and soul-search about the "i think" and the " i guess" part of your answer. any STRAIGHT woman will tell you NO she's NOT attracted to another female-----period!! if you know a woman is CUTE then you have bi-sexual tendencies. it all depends on your age and level of maturity----if you have an understanding of WHAT is happening to you emotionally as well as sexually.
2006-07-19 13:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are a girl who likes guys.... plain and simple. If you have the interest in being "sexual" with another woman, then you could be bi-sexual or gay. However, you clearly stated that you are not attracted to women in that way, so don't sweat it.
2006-07-19 12:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by ssavage23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on why you are focused on measuring the attractiveness of other girls.
Is it that you are just admiring their looks and are fascinated by the uniqueness that each girl has? (Like admiring a super-model?)
Are you curious about the sexuality of other girls, but you can't envision yourself being romantically involved?
Girls who present themselves "Butch" are hoping to attract other girls, but once you are aware that the masculine looking girl is a girl then your attraction for that person should diminish if you are straight.
Sounds like you are bi-curious to me.
2006-07-19 13:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, try experiencing kissing with another girl though just to see how you feel. if you liked it you could very well be a bisexual, thats what i did to realise my sexuality, im a bi and i prefer sex wiv men but some time like a girl there. if your still not sure then your confussed, this is normal.
2006-07-19 12:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is totally normal to be attracted to people of the same sex, to think they are pretty or sexy. You say you are not sexually interested in girls, so you probably aren't a lesbian. If you were, which there is absolutely nothing wrong with, you would probably feel asa attracted to them as you are to boys.
2006-07-19 12:54:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋