A guy"A"who i knew 5yrs we had feelings for eachother he was there with me through everything except due to issues he couldnt commit so he left.Then another best friend"S" guy proposed marriage to me we dont love eachother we havent been through everything we are best friends his family friends like me for him we might fall in love after marriage just weeks later "A" came back to propose marriage to me.Should i accept A or S?
2006-07-19 12:23:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ive to say yes to one of them who A or S?
2006-07-19 12:27:30 · update #1
I dont agree with one and only i dont think ur taking it lightly i think ur being practical uve thought of from ur heart in case of A he cant commit now ur thinking through ur head in both cases good going.I suggest u find out reasons why A couldnt commit if its some reason other then he needed time to think of marriage say no choose S if its just that A wanted to take time to think of marriage choose A ultimately u have history with A even though he cant get along with u after marriage it will be a problem with S u can have a fresh start probably fall in love after marriage
Decide in favour of A only if he changes he can love,take care of u after marriage.
2006-07-19 12:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say A reason why you knew that guy 5 years and have feelings for each other and was htere with you through everything but now he is commit with you to marry you.. and the s guy is that you don't even love eachother and if yoiu did marry S and you will wished that you married A and that how it happen to me and I am glad I married to A and not B and so smiling so you should....
If not thenyou will be so mad wish that you listen to this smiling.
2006-07-19 19:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither,
R U Serious? You are sick!!
How can you take a blessed thing like marriage so lightly?
If you don't know who you want to spend the REST of your LIFE with, you are light years away from choosing a husband.
Sheesh!!! You really sicken me
2006-07-19 19:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by one_and_only 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of them. move on. A nor S are good for you. you can find someone a lot better than that. i married my first husband i wasn't even in love with him. i did it out of spite. so my family would shut the hell up. it only lasted 2years. you only married the one you love.
2006-07-19 19:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither! Well It's Ya Decision not ours
2006-07-19 19:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You said "say yes or no." And A.
2006-07-19 19:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by goddess17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only thing you should say YES to is "COUNSELLING"!
2006-07-19 19:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither!
2006-07-19 19:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋