2006-07-19 12:22:32 · 24 answers · asked by nana luna 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes, I had a friend who pretended he was gay to get rid of his wife, they dated in High school and she manipulated him so much, and manipulated him to the point where he was walking down the aisle and kept asking why am I here? he lied to her and told her he was gay hoping she would divorce him...it worked, but she later found out he remarried and tried to sue him, it was tragic, but pretty funny...
2006-07-19 12:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by Wheels 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. You shouldn't pretend you are something you're not because then you are not being true to yourself. Also you could hurt a girl that might really like you thinking you were a lesbian or bisexual girl, but you are straight so you told them a lie.
2006-07-19 13:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I don't think so. Transsexuals pretend to be women. So I guess it's okay for you to pretend to be a lesbian... Not even going to get on how many lesbians, gays and bisexuals pretend to be straight!
2006-07-19 12:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by TayCe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I went out with some friends a few months ago. we girls just wanted to hang out, have some drinks. A couple guys followed us from one bar to the next. I went outside with my friend and they followed us there. When they started asking where we were from, etc. I grabbed Gina's hand and told them we were "unavailable". They got the hint and split.
If you are pretending to be a lesbian and you have ill intent (to gay-bash) then yes, you are wrong.
2006-07-19 12:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. no no no... there's nothing wrong with pretending to be a lesbian.
Go on... it's cool. Nothing ethically, morally or legally wrong with that.
But... tell me.... Do you just pretend in front of others... or... *ahem* do you actually "act" like a lesbian with other girls. Say... in the bedroom?
In order to fully answer your question I'll need to know ALLLL the details.
2006-07-19 12:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by bluetarnation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure! Why do you pretend to be a lesbian?
2006-07-19 12:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by loudy_foudy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If you don't be yourself, less people will respect you and they will perceive you as being fake and a liar. Therefore, it could complicate current and future friendships.....even relationships with guys. Plus, what if a "real" lesbian thinks that you are real and falls for you. If that happens, you could totally confuse her and crush her. By acting like a lesbian, you might actually lose out on "Mr. Right." He could be closer than you think.
2006-07-19 16:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Zippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong for you to act like a lesbian.
However, I too would need to know all the details.
Have you had your first period?
Do you like to fondle other girls' cupcakes?
I don't know, but look deep inside yourself.
Are you just pretending?
Or are you trying to get with a Ming Dynasty vase?
2006-07-19 12:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by Deutscher Eishockey Bund 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on why u are doing it because nowdays men dont care if you are a lesbian or not they just want to join so using it can always backfire trust me on that i thought it would work too.
but the difference is i am gay.so if it works dont get offended ifa female approaches you for the same reason.
2006-07-20 09:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by sweetshariqua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you're hurting someone in the process.
Then again, if a real lesbian kissed you.. she'd prob know.
2006-07-19 12:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by pammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋