Me and my Fiance have been togther for 4 years. And he wants a baby too. But the problem is I can't do it. My hormones are uneven. But his sperm is good. So I have been going to the doctors. And it is due to my irregular periods. And my doctor gave me some pills to help my eggs drop. If that doesn't help in 2 months, I have an appointment to go back to the doctors and get injected. Do you think that is a bad idea. Does that affect any health for my baby? Want do you think?
2006-07-19 12:21:31 · 14 answers · asked by hunnie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Me, I guess you knew when you wrote "I'm 19 and want a baby?" everyone would tell you you are too young. I am not going to tell you that. I think it's great you and your man have been together 4 years and both want the same thing. At your age you will have to be ACTIVELY trying for at least a year before you will be able to seek treatment, unless you have existing problems, which it sounds like you do. It probably will not take you very long to get your cycles regulated. Here are some questions to consider. What pills did your doctor give you? Clomid, to make you ovulate? If so, you should be able to be on Clomid 3 or 4 months at a time with a 3 or 4 month break in between. What do you mean get injected? With fertility shots for super ovulation or with sperm? Your doctor would not do anything to affect the health of you or your baby without explaining the risk to you. How is your relationship with your doctor, your man, God? How do you know your man's sperm is good? I am assuming he has been tested. Good Luck, Be Smart. Jenni
2006-07-19 15:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know this is your fiance, but please go ahead and get married before you have a baby! I have a 4 year old and I just recently married the father. Marriage is difficult by itself; a baby is difficult also--more than anyone can tell you! Trying to experience both marriage and baby brand new at the same time--I couldn't imagine!!! And what if you have the baby and you two never end up marrying. Just slow down, and get where you want to be in life.
2006-07-19 23:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First... WHY!! What do you have to give a child right now. Love doesn't put food on the table. You are 19, both of you need to get an education and have stable careers then a child. It is a lot harder when you already have children.
I had my first when I was in college, he sat with me the first 3 months of his life in class. I was married, but it was hard to be a student, a mom, a provider. Get yourself healthy first, mind, body and spirit. Then, think about a baby.
2006-07-19 19:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by lily2020blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you want a baby now why?
Have you completed college? Do you have enough saved to support another life? Do know what the responsibilties are for raising a child?
Please wait at least 4 more years. enjoy your youth, study something, make yourself a better person for your child. Get married, and enjoy your husband company, and then bring a child into that union.
At 19 you should be fertile no matter how irregular your period. if you do not get pregnant, maybe its for a reason.
Relax...
2006-07-19 23:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by Stacy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pills that help release eggs can sometimes result in multiples. Large multiples as in like 4-6! This results in preterm birth and low birth weight and all the complications of a preterm birth. I would really wait until you are better financially set due to multiple baby risk..
2006-07-19 19:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by optimistic_dr3am3r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart get married before you get pregnant.. that might change you wanting a baby with him..marriage changes everone. Also have you do everything you wanted to do with your life that doesn't involve yoour boyfriend..if not do it before you get amrried and have a child. If you are having aa hard time tring to concieve take it a blessing sinse you are still young. If the two of you make it throughg all this he will wait for a baby. P.S. They are HARD WORK. think twice about having one so young.
2006-07-19 22:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by not2smarttoday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I can say that i have two healthy boys and that i didnt have any problems in childbirth but i do know that I took the time to talk to my doctor about my concerns and that made a difference and maybe you should give you doctor a call and ask him or her your questions about what you are feeling and your questions about the process you may have to go through
2006-07-19 19:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by kimber69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe artificial insemination is harmful. Hopefully your doctor have already explained the pros and possible cons to you already. However, I feel 19 is too young to start a family, unless you already have your career and things situated.
2006-07-19 19:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by annarenee83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, all you can do is try..your body will take pregnancy when its ready.But get an ovulation predictor..and try when it suggests..hell ive heard NOT trying gets you pregnant quicker..but know your ovulation dates.
your only 19..you've got your life ahead of you.. i had my baby at 19 im 20 now..shes taken up my whole life..you have to be prepared for that.
2006-07-19 19:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by mommy2savannah51405 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fertilization increases the risk of having multiples...multiples increases the risk of birth defects and premature labor. It could be your body is just telling you it's not quite ready yet...give it some time. i know a couple that tried for 9 years and out of the blue got pregnant when they stopped trying.
2006-07-19 19:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by jenluvsdrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋