and i like this dude who's in this possy and wants me to do it. i like him a lot, but i don't know if i'm ready. i just want to make him like me... what do i do?
2006-07-19 11:31:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You should never do anything you don't want to!!! And defiantly shouldn't want to make someone like you.
Here's an excerpt from Lyfe Jennings new song S.E.X
Eh yo Lyfe, she may take it better coming from a woman (Give it to her)
See he’ll tell you all kind of things to get in your pants, yeah
Baby it’s a fact, that once it’s gone you’ll never get it back (never get it back)
Hold on, to your innocence
Use your common sense
You’re worth waiting for (You’re worth waiting for)
Be strong
Honey don’t give in
Blessing come with patience
Until we meet again, I’m praying, for you
2006-07-19 11:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by CPSweetie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off - there is NOTHING honorable or respectable about losing your virginity at 12 ... You may want to think about hanging with friends who aren't so obsessed with sleeping around ... as for the guy -- he probably knows some of the girls in your "click" are fast and just wants to be able to say "Hey, I bagged a virgin!" .. Don't be a statistic for him ... because that's all you'll be - just a number. The first time I did it was with a guy who (I later found out) had a rep for ONLY going after virgins .. they called him "De-viriginizing Dave" it was humiliating ... I felt the same kind of pressure to have sex (I was almost 17 years old) and once I did - I wished it never happened ... plus I was terrified I had gotten pregnant .. it was the worst 4 weeks of my life ... do yourself a BIG favor and don't give into anyone who wants you to do something your not ready for - NO ONE is the Boss of you (except your Mom & Dad) .. don't give anyone the power to make you do something that can hurt you in the long run ...
2006-07-19 11:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by tinthelbc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, dude, plain and simple you have to be able to sleep at night with whatever you choose, if you don't think you're ready, then you aren't ready. Just live your life the way you want to because ultimately you have to live with it, and trust me, this "possy" won't be around forever, so just do what you feel is right. Besides, you can only give it up once, and whatever you do, make sure you don't regret it--you can find a silver lining to every cloud. Just make sure no one gets any diseases.
2006-07-19 12:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 23:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say don't do it. You have to realize the value of your body. If you have sex with him he will eventually dump you, or talk about you in a negative way. I might be old fashioned, but If I were you I would save myself for marriage. If you start having sex at age 12, you "stuff" will be so used by the time your 20, no man is going to want you. Besides there are so many sexual diseases that could kill you. Aids, Syphillis, Gonnorhea, crabs and many more.
2006-07-19 11:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by DeeLight 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT, I REPEAT DON'T DO IT. What makes you think he will like you after you give it to him? Seems to me you just like him, he doesn't seem to like you. Why do something you don't want to do anyway, once you give up the best gift that you will ever have to give your husband, you will feel lower than dirt, is he worth it. You are to young to even be thinking about sex, you also need to stop hanging with the girls that you are hanging with, be a leader and not a follower.
2006-07-19 13:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not absolutely not ready then dont do it. No guy is worth losing your virginity too early. It is sacred to you and should be saved for the guy you will spend the rest of your life with
2006-07-19 12:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him! Dont disrespect yourslef by giving into some guy...trust me, wait till the right one comes along.
2006-07-19 11:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it because other ppl have done it. That is so stupid. All of my friends lost their virginity's before me.. but I didn't care. So... it's your body... keep it pure. Save yourself for when you're really ready for that kind of commitment.
2006-07-19 11:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by *Shayla* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
back away, he will get alone with you and force you to, and that is heading down the accidental pregnancy road, if you tell him and he doesnt understand than get a new group
2006-07-19 12:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by ally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋