there is this girl at my High school, but i barely know her. She is 6' and i'm 5'5, but first i what to be friends so i can ask her out.
How do i become friends with her besides just appearing out of no where and say what to be friends. what should i do?
2006-07-19 11:15:54 · 20 answers · asked by Seismic Toss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Make plans with your friends to go out to a public place. Not a movie, or dinner, but somewhere like the forest preserves. You can then give her a personal invitation, say youve seen her around, and think it would be cool if she came. She can even bring her own friends(so you could see her in her own environment, outside of school) and she wont feel out of place.
Bring some fun games like Bags, or ladder ball, a couple of frisbees (sneakily try to put the two of you on the same team)etc.... you get the picture. bring some snacks and drinks. make a ritual of this, because she may say no the first time, also find out who her friends are. try asking them to come , sooner or later, she will end up showing up. then you put your host abilities on full throttle. Dont show her too much attention though, that just shows neediness. become friends with one of her friends so that they will talk to this girl when youre not around, not FOR you, but when your name comes up ONE of her friends will remember you, and be able to praise you (in a sort of sense), and then you can use your own charm to win her heart.
BUT MOST OF ALL JUST BE YOURSELF!!! AND KNOW THAT SHE MIGHT NOT BE THE ONE FOR YOU AT ALL.
AFTERALL THERE ARE PLENTY FISH IN THE SEA. OR SHE MIGHT END UP BEING YOUR BEST FRIEND FOR LIFE.
GOOD LUCK, AND BEST WISHES.
BE PATIENT, AND IF AND WHEN YOU DO GET THE GIRL,
KNOW THAT (MOST) WOMEN LIKE A GUY THAT KNOWS HOW TO MAKE PLANS. YOU ALWAYS WANT TO KEEP HER INTERESTED, AND WANTING TO KNOW MORE.
SINCERELY,
FOSHOW
2006-07-19 11:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by FoShow 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
how about sneaking around or "accidentaly bumping into her" no matter what you just have to get that 1 min to say a line to her and then a conversation can be started or it wont happen but think about the fact that its important b/c you might regret it later.
2006-07-19 18:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by anahata20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u want to ask this girl out u must do something to impress her. Find out what she likes and kind of go along with that. Then you'll know what to do, trust me.
2006-07-19 18:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by rainbow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should find out the stuff she likes to do and the places she hangs out and go there as much as possible.u could even ask her about music that she likes.any reason to talk to her works
2006-07-19 18:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by blondieb5835 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up 2 her and say we need 2 talk and then ask her out
2006-07-19 18:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and importantly be CONFIDENT. Thats the key to getten ladies. By Smooth J.J.
2006-07-19 18:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Justinfire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's in one of your classes you could pretend to forget the assignment and talk to her if she starts to talk to you about things other then the assignment then you should go and talk to her some of the times you see her then you can be friends and then go out with her. good luck
2006-07-19 18:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to her and ask her whatz up, and find a common ground, and ask her what she likes to do in spare time.
2006-07-19 18:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by Xanthous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit beside her at lunch
2006-07-19 18:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by WiseWon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk 2 her
2006-07-19 18:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋