2006-07-19 10:57:57 · 15 answers · asked by Jade 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Toddler child, not so serious relationship.
2006-07-19 11:15:06 · update #1
That's a hard question - depending on the age of the children and how long it has been since the last breakup. I think while you are still in the getting to know each other phase it is best to leave children out of it. Once you are sure it is not a fling then maybe go to a movie with the children and the new person. I don't believe in bringing a new person into the home until you are sure it is the real thing and plans are being made to make it long term (and no that does not mean you have to wait until you are married) Besides meeting on neural ground such as a zoo, movies, pizza place makes it easier on all parties. Hope the new someone in you life is the right one for you and I wish you all the happiness you deserve.
2006-07-19 11:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I agree..depending on how long you have been dating. I always have mentioned that I am going out with a friend but never have I introduced them until the relationship was further down or serious. You don't want guys coming and going, kids getting attached ..well you know the rest of the story. Until you feel comfortable and ready to do so..good luck!
2006-07-19 12:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by JC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how serious the relationship. I would first introduce him as a friend once you know if you guys are serious .If you guys are just going to be friends with benefits( no offense) you could still introduce him as a friend ,but make sure you guys are not affection when your child is around .Also you have to make sure that he is ready to be part of your child life. Good luck
2006-07-19 11:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a single parent of an 18 year old boy. In his 18 yrs he's only known 2 of my friends. It's always best to wait and see where the relationship is going. I mean really see.( Months) It's safer that way for both you and your child.
2006-07-19 11:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mee Mee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would definately be the best person to answer that question.
When I was single, I only introduced the guy I was dating to them after it was actually serious. They did not meet any of my casual dates.
2006-07-19 11:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a single mom of three. I think it's a good time when you can look at this guy and think "he hasn't done anything to make me not trust him....he's a really good guy....I want to let him in." Take your time and start dropping little hints to the kids that you have a special person in your life you would like them to get to know. The kids' response is always a good indication on what timeframe you should go by.
2006-07-19 11:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by barbramaq 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As soon as they become a viable part of your social life. "johnny, I want you to meet my friend, Sean. He is going with us to McDonalds tonight". Take it SLOW and very nonconfrontationally. They too have to enjoy the person as a friend before attachment can start to take place. That can take up to a year or more (depending on why you are single)
2006-07-19 11:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the age of the child... but really I think early in the relationship is good because if you want your kids to have an open relationship w/ you, you need to be open w/ them!
2006-07-19 11:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
After the first date. You need to know how they react together before you spend a lot of time only to discover they "don't fit."
You most likely have a good intuition and can tell if they will get along.
2006-07-19 11:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by Gregory B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you are sure that they are someone who is going to be around for a good long time. It is very hard for children to get attached to people and then lose them, always keep that in mind.
2006-07-19 11:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋