I just got back from my friends house and need to ask u two things???!!!?

Question

ok my friend is 12 and her dad beat her with a belt when she didnt do anything!!!he was drunk and he beat her after i left too!!! 2. one of the families that lives in her neighborhood has 3 boys and there mom drinks too much so when they switched her long island ice tea with root beer she told us to get off of her property and if we got back on it she would call the law and i feel sorry for them and they are like 14 and 15 and they were crying because there mom has a year to live if she doesnt stop driking and she said no and she has already went to rehab and she is going back but she wont even stop for her kids!!!

what should i do?

Answer 1

Sweet sis, welcome to life! It sucks sometimes. Not everyone's life is sugar sweet and tied with a pretty bow. Not saying that yours is, just simply letting you know that there are creeps in the world...of both genders! I'm sorry you had to experience that, and I pray your friends will not be scarred too badly from their parents lack of consideration and compassion.

My advice: If you feel your friend is being abused rather then simply disciplined, let someone know. However, make sure your friend did not deserve the beating she got. When we're kids sometimes we feel punishment is undeserved, even if we act out of line. As far as you friends with the alcoholic mother goes, the best thing you can do for them is be there. Sounds like they could use a friend like you who cares about them and their feelings. There is nothing you can do for the mother, it sounds like she has already got her mind made up. If you believe in the power of prayer..I'd say that's your best bet! Whatever you choose to do, make sure you have all the facts straight and stay sweet. There aren't too many people left in the world that still care for the well-being of others.

Best Wishes!

Answer 2

Sassy Syas...Well sounds like drama girl! First off you can not control some one if they are beating there kid, you can call C.P.S or the police department during the incident and remain annonymous.... Part 2: The woman is an alcoholic and she will not stop unless she wants to, dont take it personally because alcoholics are not in thier right mind they are so intoxicated there brain chemicals are off and things are not normal...You need to hook her up with A.A. stuff, you can find it in your phone book they have meetings all over and you can tell her that you want to send her something and send her some A A literature, it may or may not work. It is not any of your control. Good Luck@

Answer 3

YES! you did the right thing! Move on with life this guy isn't worth all of this! It is Unacceptable!!! Kick him out and mean it next time he leaves; if he can't grow up and deal with the problems he has himself without running to another women then she can have him b/c he is obviously not ready to grow up anyway, besides that why is he involving other people when you two fight I hate that when people do that!!! It's between you and he. Besides THAT what are you doing knowing he's still going over to this women house? Once or twice for me but not a third or forth time... He shouldn't even be contacting her if he's with you and you mean anything to him. He makes excuses and fights with you purposely doesn't he, you find yourself into fights and arguments with him over the stupid sh_t right? One minute everything is f=great and the next your arguing then the next he's out the door!!! Just so he's got a reason to go over there blaming it on you to justify his behavior making you think it's all you and if I had done this differently or if I had said this or that- end this before you get can't!!! He is a monster!!!

Answer 4

Are you trying to find out what you can do in regards to both these issues? Sorry...I didn't see a question, just the two different examples.

I'd tell your mom and your dad what the situation is. In cases like this, adults can help. They will know who to call and what to do.

If you don't want to tell your parents, tell your friends to talk to a teacher or a counselor at school. They will help them out by either calling social services or providing intervention for the parents.
Those parents sound really abusive...I'm sorry you're having to deal with this.

Answer 5

If you are asking what can you do about the situations then I would talk to a school counselor. On the other hand you can always go to your nearest child protective agency and tell them what is going on. You never know the next blow may really cause serious damage. If you really care about these friends take some action and show them that you care. They are probably trying to reach out but nobody has the guts to say anything.

Answer 6

Wow your friend needs to tell somebody about her dad cuz he shouldnt be doing that. That's child abuse. I say next time she should call the cops on her dad, they'll know what to do about it. And for the 14 and 15 year old, what they need to do is probably tell some of their family members about their mothers drinking..maybe then they could have a family intervention..where they all ask her to stop drinking because it is hurting the family, etc.

Answer 7

If there is abuse, you need to report it so your friend can get help! Call the police or the division of families in your area. Your parents should be able to help. Children (even teenagers) should not be in harmful situations. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 8

You should definately tell your mom/dad, or maybe even call an abuse hotline. That type of behavior is unacceptable of an adult. Wheather she did or did not do anything she does not deserve to be beat with a belt. CALL SOMEONE>>>ANYONE!!

Answer 9

Run-on sentence. Reported

Answer 10

For the issue with the idiot who beats his kids...call the police...do not hesitate....do it now....he is a Jerk and should be reported...the other issue is with The Mother...call the social services in your area and report the abuse.......